I just swiped through literally 18 freaking message options and all of them was the ai playing my character. It’s getting on my last nerve and pissing me off. Even when I tell the AI to not play my character it doesn’t listen.
This issue really needs to get fixed instead of these other stupid updates.
I thought it was an irritation bump which would make sense because I kept accidentally hitting it with my glasses, then walked into a person and hit it again but I don’t know. First photo is how it looked when I first noticed, second is when it stopped hurting, third is now and it’s hurting again (but I did accidentally bump it again today). As you can see there is now a hole in it. I don’t know if it’s rejecting or what. Should I just go get it removed and let it heal back up on its own? I got it in January and I’ll admit I missed the appointment to get it downsized (I started working nightshifts which made everything like that harder since I’m sleeping during the day).
For the first two months I used base laboratories saline spray on it twice a day and then like all my other piercings I stopped and left it alone letting just water from my showers run over it. As soon as I noticed the bump though I went back to cleaning it twice a day with the saline spray and water in the shower only. I don’t remember the type of metal the jewelry is sadly, it’s either titanium or surgical steal and it’s threaded.
So I feel really embarrassed having to come on here and ask this but I feel like if I don’t calm down my nerves the massage will just be pointless.
So I got me and my mom massage vouchers for Mother’s Day and our appointment is tomorrow, it’s a 60 minute Swedish massage with a 30 minute foot massage. This is no way my first massage as I’ve been getting them at least once or twice a year for the last 4 years but this is the first time I’m on my period when I’ll be having one. And one of the main issues that I’m nervous about is I don’t like tampons, they’ve always been uncomfortable to me and especially when I have a light flow like I do now, I prefer panty liners. Is it fine to go get a massage while wearing a panty liner? Should I suck it up and use a tampon for the hour and a half? If I do use a panty liner or even if I don’t and I do use a tampon should I give the person doing my massage a heads up that I’m on my period? I’m not a very comfortable person with talking about things like my period so it would definitely be embarrassing for me but I also don’t want to make whoever is doing it uncomfortable either so I’d push aside that embarrassment.
It’s pretty small right now, probably the size of my thumb nail but we get them every year and they get massive, around the size of a dragon fly later in the summer. One always sets up camp right next to the front door outside (the one in the photo) and there are others that set up around the windows on the outside. Doesn’t seem aggressive or anything, I do say hello and good bye to him/her whenever I leave and he/she doesn’t run at all whenever you get near