Mom is in an abusive relationship with a crazy man
Hello I need advice urgently for my mom F38 currently in a both emotionally and physically abusive relationship. Her boyfriend M28 has major depression, social anxiety, alcohol and weed addiction, and anger issues. When he’s sober he’s kind to my mom, but when he drinks, it becomes actually insane and I know for sure not legal and my mom is too nice to say anything. He punches holes in the wall, breaks cars, doors, genuinely everything in the house. He threatens to kill himself everyday, including if she were to leave him. He starts yelling profusely and becomes violent when he drinks, and sometimes leaves the house while intoxicated to drive and he has been in an accident and caught by the police because of this. The problem is that they are on the same lease so if they were to break up, she would have to deal with a lot of debt because the contract is for two years and he already doesn’t make enough to pitch in for his half of the rent. He still hasn’t paid for damages he’s caused in the house because of his own issues and owes my mom money. She’s super worried because she isn’t financially stable enough to go through with all this and leave him. I really need advice on what I can do and what she can do legally so she doesn’t have to go through all the consequences of his sick issues by herself. Funny thing is he acts the complete opposite when he’s sober and acts like the most innocent guy ever offering my mom everything. He’s a manipulator and he really needs help but more than that, my mom needs help the most. Right now he’s currently spam texting my mom saying we’ll never see him again and he’ll fix everything so he can peacefully “rest in peace.” I want help for him but I can’t let my mom keep going through this. Please help