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I am 17M and I feel depressed over this girl who is my friend ( Please bear with me, This might be a bit long

So, last year, we met each other again after a 2 year gap since she left to another school when high school began. We weren't that great friends but still we used to help each other. It was very slow and tough at the beginning after seeing each other after a long time but eventually things were in track. We see each other after school for 5 mins and talk about a lot of stuff. It a casual friendship and she never looked in that kind of way.

We are going to finish high school this year and since school reopened, things were going fine for the first 1-2 weeks. One day, I took a day off and saw her walking. It was like unusual after a long time she walked away quickly from me ( I usually wait for a while for her to come if I take a day off). I guessed she was in a hurry but since then, she did not speak a word to me. The next week again, she walked away very fast from me. I asked and she said it was getting late. (The day before, I had seen her coming but after that one day she walked away, I did not mind. I thought to give her space. I guess it was stupid looking back)..

The silence started to become unbearable after a point. I asked her if she had any problem and if she was safe but she denied it and was okay. But, this week, whenever I was around her after school, the same happened again. No words. No turning back. She just walked away like I didn't even exist. She stopped minding me while in school as well.

I feel tempted to ask if there is any problem but I guess I won't be getting any answers. And, I am a loner most of the time and she is one of the few friends I care and love for. I don't know if I have said or did anything that have hurt her. IDK man it just hurts inside. Now, should I ask if there is anything wrong I did to her but I don't want her to feel obliged that she should be my friend. I am going to say a sorry the day I see her and might have to let her go. I think it's over.

Thanks for reading this far. Any advice will be appreciated.

I am 17M and I feel depressed over this girl who is my friend ( Please bear with me, This might be a bit long

So, last year, we met each other again after a 2 year gap since she left to another school when high school began. We weren't that great friends but still we used to help each other. It was very slow and tough at the beginning after seeing each other after a long time but eventually things were in track. We see each other after school for 5 mins and talk about a lot of stuff. It a casual friendship and she never looked in that kind of way.

We are going to finish high school this year and since school reopened, things were going fine for the first 1-2 weeks. One day, I took a day off and saw her walking. It was like unusual after a long time she walked away quickly from me ( I usually wait for a while for her to come if I take a day off). I guessed she was in a hurry but since then, she did not speak a word to me. The next week again, she walked away very fast from me. I asked and she said it was getting late. (The day before, I had seen her coming but after that one day she walked away, I did not mind. I thought to give her space. I guess it was stupid looking back)..

The silence started to become unbearable after a point. I asked her if she had any problem and if she was safe but she denied it and was okay. But, this week, whenever I was around her after school, the same happened again. No words. No turning back. She just walked away like I didn't even exist. She stopped minding me while in school as well.

I feel tempted to ask if there is any problem but I guess I won't be getting any answers. And, I am a loner most of the time and she is one of the few friends I care and love for. I don't know if I have said or did anything that have hurt her. IDK man it just hurts inside. Now, should I ask if there is anything wrong I did to her but I don't want her to feel obliged that she should be my friend. I am going to say a sorry the day I see her and might have to let her go. I think it's over.

Thanks for reading this far. Any advice will be appreciated.

I am 17M and things seem a bit unclear with a friend who is a girl.. ( Please bear with me since it might be a long post)..

I mean, she was a former crush since 8th grade and I still love her the same way since back then. But, I guess we found comfort in just being friends so things were going fine. She always kept the company surface level so it does not go deep into intimacy or the next level..

So, we had like a great convo. a day last week. We talked about a lot of things and parted ways heart full. The next day, we didn't talk much since she caught a cold and I did not see her the day next. But, she kind of ran away when she saw me last Friday which I think is understandable since we walked in between a group of people ( She never wants people to see us talking like I said, surface level)..

So, this Tuesday, I was walking to home and saw her coming behind me. I did not mind since it was late and went away. But, she ran away again when we saw this wednesday and did not even turn back. It was very unusual after a long time. I was like very disappointed and sad rest of the day and I haven't seen her for the past 2 days.

I have a lot of questions in mind which I might never ask. I doubt if she fears if our friendship goes the next level or IDK if it was something I said. She turns away even if we see for a brief moment and I'm kind of depressed since I am mostly lonely and she is one of the few friends I love and care for..

Should I ask if there are any problems between or something else.. Any kind of advice will be appreciated. Thanks for reading this far..