u/Few-Money-5987

Alright. Need someone to chime in with information or an idea.

I live out here in castle rock. My vehicles engine jumped timing and the engine destroyed itself. This is my only car now its toast. I have a small family and a job and a new job lined up. I make a paycheck to paycheck salary, I dont have alot of money 1k or less. My current job is in the golden area, and the new job on Evans and Dhalia. Ive seen no rtd out here I know theres a station in Lone tree for the light rail. Uber out here runs close to 20 bucks a trip . I cant afford a car payment everymonth 400- 600 seems to be the norm.

If you have no functioning car how do you get out of this town for work ????

Is there a shuttle or carpool service to the light rail?

Is their a service that helps people down on their luck get something to drive ?

Is there ride vouchers through uber or yellow cab to get to the light rail?

Does anyone out here or know someone that has an old running vehicle for around 1k that they want to sell . If it can get me to the light rail , and has a clean title... thats all I care about?

Ive worn diapers all my life. One thing I always struggled with was changing at work worrying what others thought.

Well I got news for everyone its not as hard as one might think. Usially have to keep a diaper in the bathroom at work or hide one. A month ago I discovered Ive over thought it all this time I had to change quick I wont go into detail , but I basically took a diaper out of my bag and went to the restroom. A few coworkers saw the diaper . I went to the restroom changed. Noone said anything. ​Since then I realized its no different then females taking a pad to the restroom with them. Honestly its been much easier to simply just carry a diaper to the restroom. So far noones said anything. Ironically a frequent coworker probably in her 40s from staffing agency has been doing the same thing with pull ups, Ive not seen anyone heard anyone say anything or give that attention either. The moral of this lesson is noone cares if we use diapers most people say nothing. Took me a while to realize that. Personally I use regular white northshore diapers.. now if you use the cartoon printed briefs well I cant say whether someone will comment on those or not because of the print but figured Id share that the stigma is not what it seems.

Alright food for thought from a single man.... So back in the day when we were curious if a woman was single without asking obviously we would eye the left hand to look for a wedding ring.

Anyone notice basically that strategy is basically out the window.

So from I work in a medical profession that is dominately women workers. Ive noticed this over the years.

What I notice

Alot of married women do not wear a ring. 1. Financial reasons 2. They only wear for whatever the occasion might be. 3 They might be in process divorce or trying to attract men for platonic purposes. 4. Other

The tattooed ring

1. Is current 2. Is from a past marriage

Single Women with a ring

1. Because they can 2. To ward of guys except for the ones they wish to approach

Chime in. Does this throw you off when looking for a partner? Do you feel the significance of a ring is basically out the window and its more of an approach and ask if you are looking for a single woman? Do you feel it could be a deception technique? Have you ever had to ask if they are single and got a pleasant yes or a pissed off no? Are there other ways you can tell if a lady is single that you wish to share?

Chime in bros

A chick Im seeing at work , likes to get hot snd heavy with me. But I want to be the ultimate bad boy and let her know shes getting it the best. We have a small chapel at work. How bad boy would it be if I suggest we go to pray. I throw all the junk off the alter and we hop up there and get it on?

I want to know something. For myself and just general knowledge.

Ive heard it referenced by my doctor never inquired. Ive seen random articles that dont go into depth.

Heres the question.....IS THERE OR WHAT COULD the relationship be between ADHD and ... adultdiapers/incontinence/bedwetting?????

There is not alot of reading material online for this BUT they are brought up simultaneously sometimes which leads me to suspect there might be a relation.

At 35 I wear diapers. Ive worn diapers most of my life for night time incontinence and now I wear them during the day for urge.

Ive been wanting to try the diapers with print on. cthem . Im a little embarrassed to. A few people have seen my diapers. Mr doctor, which I was embarrassed, I had psoriasis the doctor had to check all my skin and she asked if their was any reason Im wearing a diaper. I explained my bed wetting and I sometimes have issues holding it for to long , Im more comfortable using diapers. A few of my coworkers probably figured it out because I keep my diapers in a cabinet at work. Acupuncture knows because Ive had to change my diaper after a few sessions.

Id like to try the printed diapers but I feel embarrassed to know what people would think if they saw them.

Ive wet the bed my entire life, during the day I cant hold it too long. Ive went from wearing diapers at night and just felt Id rather just diaper myself 24/7 incase and Im more comfortableusing my diaper then being discomforted holding it too long. . Ive dated regular women for some its fine others its a turn off. I wish I could meet someone who also wears diapers that totally gets it. Im sure there are some out there , question is where are you.

Alright I met this woman at the gas station two weeks ago in line we just had small chat . She told me shed like to see me around. I told her that can be arranged so we exchanged numbers.

I texted her asked how her day is she told me it was great. I told her if shes hungry Id love to meet and buy lunch. Then no reply. I figured shes not interested.

I run into her two days ago at the grocery store. She told me she was dealing with issues in her family. And shes been meaning to text me. I told her not to worry about things happen. Later she texts asks how Im doing and tells me about her job being rough. I told her to tell me more what interests her. If theres anything shed like to know about me. Then no reply for two days.

Im curious whats the name of the game here. I barely know her so obviously zero commitment judgement or feelings. Is she showing interest and stopping herself from expressing that or just small talk when shes bored

Im not to familiar with services out here. Who can recommend a shop that does fairly priced window tint. Or Someone that does it as a small buissiness. Just want some basic tint on my 2 door car. Nothing fancy

Alright guys. Lets put our brains together on this one. Has a woman ever offered her number first? Has a woman flirted to the point and ranted and basically sold herself... So you exchange numbers? Have you ever asked for a number and recieved it?

Right well we all have at one point experienced this. So we text that number the female either texts back days later. Not at all. Shows no interest when she offered her number first. Or holds decent conversation but never meets up.

What is up with this? Why dont they keep to themselves instead of flirting and volunteering numbers ,( even when they offer their number first).. if they know they have no desire to go anywhere. If a guy asks for their number but they know they are not going to pursue anything, why dont they politely decline or say they have a boyfriend or something?

I knew a woman 7 years back worked with her once apon a time. We'd talk all the time used to grab a bite and a game of pool. It eventually came to an end she found some guy.

3 years ago she hit me up and expressed she had feelings for me. I set up a date and she didn't show. She disappeared on social media, text you name it.

Two weeks ago she popped back up. I wanted an explanation. I liked her or atleast what I remembered of her 7 years ago I figured things change and 3 years from when she stood me up being that shes 39 now maybe shes a different person. She explained she was in a relationship with a guy that beat her and even continued to live with him. She was being controlled. She claimed shes a different person today and she got a restraining order and the guys l9ng gone. She expressed her feelings and how she wanted me for 8 years.

I gave her the benefit of the doubt. I asked her about a date. Sure thing Cheesecake factory 730 pm half way between where we both live.

1 hour before the date I get a text She got "sick" . I told her Im so sorry to here that well its not about dinner Ill bring you some food and medicine. Then she disappeared from messager

I messaged her and told her Im done speaking to her indefinitely. She wasted my time, the money I paid for, gas and a babysitter, not to mention the reservation someone else could have had that table and tipped the waiters. I told her I suspect shes the same person and her toxic ex guy is probably still in the picture living under her roof on the down low and if she presented herself as anything more then single its would be a dead giveaway and what few people that care about her would have her ex arrested for violation of protection order or ducking warrants. And she wishes she was single she wishes she could have someone like me but she has her double life pulling her back . Instead she teases herself with self validation and wasting other people's time because shes to chicken shit to break the chains that bind her.

Thoughts guys. I think I called her out for what was really going on. Why do women waste guys time like this?