Today is extra tough. Instead of celebrating what would have been our 30th anniversary in midst of divorce. It’s been 4 months since he blindsided me asking for divorce and still rough. Especially after all insight I have learned in therapy that could have helped us. Grief is hitting hard today.
Today is extra tough. Instead of celebrating what would have been our 30th anniversary in midst of divorce. It’s been 4 months since he blindsided me asking for divorce and still rough. Especially after all insight I have learned in therapy that could have helped us. I know what I’m learning will still help me. But Grief is hitting hard today.
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Today is extra tough. Instead of celebrating what would have been our 30th anniversary in midst of divorce. It’s been 4 months since he blindsided me asking for divorce and still rough. Especially after all insight I have learned in therapy that could have helped us. Grief is hitting hard today.
It’s been 3 months, still having a really difficult time. 2 weeks after retiring (at 63) beginning of this year, STBXH blindsided me with divorce request and walked out immediately, after almost 30 years of marriage. No discussion, final.
In hindsight, we had issues, and I own my part of hurtful behavior. He never communicated that our marriage was at risk. We never had a chance to fix the marriage together. Irony is therapy/counseling woukd have 100% helped us.
I can barely sleep still and hurt everyday. Last year he said we need to start enjoying the life we built toward; I never knew he meant without me. He’s moved on with his new life very quickly.
It’s been 3 months, still having a really difficult time. 2 weeks after retiring (at 63) beginning of this year, STBXH blindsided me with divorce request and walked out immediately, after 29 years of marriage. No discussion, final.
In hindsight, we had issues, and I own my part of hurtful behavior. He never communicated that our marriage was at risk. We never had a chance to fix the marriage together. Irony is therapy/counseling woukd have 100% helped us.
I can barely sleep still and hurt everyday. Last year he said we need to start enjoying the life we built toward; I never knew he meant without me. He’s moved on with his new life very quickly.
It’s been 3 months, still having a really difficult time. 2 weeks after retiring (at 63) beginning of this year, STBXH blindsided me with divorce request and walked out immediately, after 29 years of marriage. No discussion, final.
In hindsight, we had issues, and I own my part of hurtful behavior. He never communicated that our marriage was at risk. We never had a chance to fix the marriage together. Irony is therapy/counseling woukd have 100% helped us.
I can barely sleep still and hurt everyday. Last year he said we need to start enjoying the life we built toward; I never knew he meant without me. He’s moved on with his new life very quickly.