u/Few_Mycologist508

just need to vent cause its lameeeeee af lol

we met online over a month ago, booked a ticket for me to come out for memorial day weekend.. yesterday he decided that me being unable to have kids naturally (long story short i had concerns for malignancy last year, but he has known this since week 1 and never expressed issue with it prior.. in fact he said it sounded like an adventure) but now 4 days before i'm supposed to fly to see him, he said it is something he isn't sure he could see himself doing (IVF) in the future & needed to pray on it and how he was torn and hasn't talked to me since ha. we have talked daily, talk on the phone usually once a day, etc.

totally valid to have concerns about potential IVF (nightmare tbh, i get it) but deciding and ghosting 4 days before im supposed to come out sucks ha

just need to vent cause its lameeeeee af lol

we met online over a month ago, booked a ticket for me to come out for memorial day weekend.. yesterday he decided that me being unable to have kids naturally (long story short i had concerns for malignancy last year, but he has known this since week 1 and never expressed issue with it prior.. in fact he said it sounded like an adventure) but now 4 days before i'm supposed to fly to see him, he said it is something he isn't sure he could see himself doing (IVF) in the future & needed to pray on it and how he was torn and hasn't talked to me since ha. we have talked daily, talk on the phone usually once a day, etc.

totally valid to have concerns about potential IVF (nightmare tbh, i get it) but deciding and ghosting 4 days before im supposed to come out sucks ha

I've been divorced 4 years now (no i dont need information on divorce and being a Christian) have two sons, who are 11 and 9 that i have full custody of and have the majority of the time and I'm ready to try dating again. i recall a couple of years ago one of my pastors telling me that he felt my biggest challenge with relationships/eventually re-marrying would be trusting a man to not only lead me, but also lead my sons.

im curious how this looked and went and felt for any other divorced women in here who remarried and had kids from a previous marriage? i feel lost and honestly scared at the thought of it ha.

In a bit of a dreamy state today.. what was it like the first time you met your partner after talking online for a while?