u/Few_Quote95

I’ve had a crush on a girl for more than 3 years. Recently, I asked her out and, as you’d expect, I got rejected. We were best friends back in the day, and somehow, I fell in love with her. I just can’t seem to move on.

Last night, I saw a picture of her in my gallery and somehow ended up staring at it for more than 30 minutes. I don’t know, I’m still only 14, by the way. I know it’s probably not a good idea to get into a relationship at this age, but I just can’t move on. Is this true love? I’ve tried everything to move on, but I still can’t.

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Hi, I'm 14M.

So there's this mf I've known for around 4 years, since Grade 6. I'm in Grade 9 now and he's in Grade 10. He's always been that one dude in class who acts kinda gay, is always hanging around with girls, and honestly he's pretty horny too 💀. You know that one student every class seems to have.

We've been friends for about 4 years, and we go to school and come back home on the same bus every day. We're not exactly best friends though. I usually hang out with my other friends on the bus because he's a year older and isn't really into the same stuff as me.

Anyway, today we're going home and he tells me, “I gotta tell you something.

I'm like, “Yeah, what is it?

Then this mf tells me to wait until the bus gets less crowded.

Eventually the bus gets almost empty. It's basically me, him, and around four other people.

Then he just tells me he likes me.

I literally asked him, “Seriously?”

And he said it seriously.

💀

And yeah… we're both boys.

There was just this awkward silence after he said it. I genuinely didn't know what the hell I was supposed to say.

Then after we got off the bus, he suddenly told me it was a joke.

But bro… I don't know.

I have this feeling that he was actually being serious and just backed out after seeing my reaction. I can't really explain it, I just feel like he's lying about it being a joke.

This is actually a real story, not some made-up Reddit shit 😭.

So what am I even supposed to do now? Do I just act normal tomorrow or say something to him?

So I got an ps2 in my house idk how it got there and I want some games to play where can I buy the disks that I ll need in Sri Lanka specially GTA san Andreas

I'm 14M and something crazy happened today. A girl from my school who likes me texted me last night and asked me to meet her. I already had an idea of what she wanted.

Today we went somewhere private at school and she tried to kiss me.

I wasn't really expecting it to happen like that, and honestly I didn't want things to go too far. I stopped it after one kiss and told her that I don't want a relationship right now, especially because she already has a boyfriend.

She got emotional, so I tried to calm her down and told her the truth instead of pretending I liked her back. Later she asked for a kiss again, but I only gave her a forehead kiss because I didn't want to lead her on.

The confusing part is that I did kind of want to experience my first kiss, but I don't actually have feelings for her. I still have feelings for another girl who probably doesn't like me back.

Did I handle this badly? Was I unfair to her by letting it happen?

Edit:

I know I need to be careful because she has feelings and I don't want to hurt her. I'm thinking I should give her space and keep my boundaries clear.

So I made a few memes about my school and some teachers using their nicknames. They were only meant as jokes between friends, but somehow they got leaked to two teachers, who are husband and wife. One of them is known for being really strict, so I honestly thought I was cooked.

I ended up speaking with them and stayed calm and respectful throughout the conversation. I explained that they were only meant as jokes, and the conversation didn't turn into an argument or anything.

Now I'm just worried about what happens next. My biggest fear is that this somehow reaches my parents because I really don't want them finding out.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? Do you think I should just wait and see what happens, or should I expect the school to contact home?

I'm curious about your perspective. I've been told that I'm a pretty chill and laid-back guy, but someone I liked once said she lost interest because I wasn't serious enough.

I’d say I'm a pretty confident person and I take care of myself, but personality-wise I'm very relaxed. When my friends playfully tease me or mess around with me, I usually don't react aggressively or try to fight back. I just laugh it off or ignore it because I don't feel the need to prove myself over small things.

Do girls see this kind of personality as unattractive or as a good quality? Is there a difference between a guy who's "chill" and a guy who seems like he doesn't care about anything?

What makes a chill guy attractive, and what makes him seem immature or not serious?

Lately, I've been feeling completely exhausted by my friend group. Almost every day, they make me the joke or find something to make fun of. It usually starts with one person, then everyone joins in.

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I also feel like I'm different from them now. We don't enjoy the same things, and I don't want to pretend to be someone I'm not just to fit in.

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I'm starting to wonder if I've simply outgrown this friendship. Has anyone else been through this/how can I cut them off?

Hey everyone,

I'm a Grade 9 student from Sri Lanka looking for a study partner. Any gender is fine.

My goal is to stay consistent with studying, improve my grades, and keep each other accountable

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We can:

Share daily study goals

Check in on progress

Motivate each other

Do weekly challenges or tests

Discuss difficult subjects

I'm mainly looking for someone who is serious about studying and wants to improve.

If you're interested, feel free to comment or send me a message.

Thanks!

Hey everyone,

I'm a student from Sri Lanka looking for a study partner. Any gender is fine.

My goal is to stay consistent with studying, improve my grades, and keep each other accountable

.

We can:

Share daily study goals

Check in on progress

Motivate each other

Do weekly challenges or tests

Discuss difficult subjects

I'm mainly looking for someone who is serious about studying and wants to improve.

If you're interested, feel free to comment or send me a message.

Thanks!

I'm 14 and lately I've been feeling stressed even though I've improved a lot in different areas of my life.

A few years ago I struggled with wasting a lot of time online, gaming for hours, and not taking my goals seriously. Over the last year I've worked hard to change that. I started exercising regularly, improved my discipline, got back into studying, and even grew a YouTube channel to over 15k subscribers.

The problem is that I still struggle with c#rn and mastu#bation that take my energy away from the things I want to achieve. I often feel frustrated because I've made progress in many areas, but this is one thing I haven't fully figured out how to manage.

Sometimes it feels like I focus so much on my weaknesses that I forget how much progress I've already made.

Has anyone else gone through something similar? How did you to manage to beat lust?

Any advice would be appreciated.

Hey I am an 14 yr old dude and honestly I have a crush on someone at my school and I actually don't want to yk do those lil things with her. But I really want to achieve my goals with her. Like for now I have 3 goals

1.Somehow be better at exams

2.Reach 100k Subscriber goal on my Yt channel

3.Make An app

I have actually come closer to these goals like I already have 14k subscribers on my channel and I am so close finish making my app which took about 6months to make.

I really want her to take part of these things. Somehow build a good life together🥀