Girls, does being too chill make a guy less attractive? 😒
I'm curious about your perspective. I've been told that I'm a pretty chill and laid-back guy, but someone I liked once said she lost interest because I wasn't serious enough.
I’d say I'm a pretty confident person and I take care of myself, but personality-wise I'm very relaxed. When my friends playfully tease me or mess around with me, I usually don't react aggressively or try to fight back. I just laugh it off or ignore it because I don't feel the need to prove myself over small things.
Do girls see this kind of personality as unattractive or as a good quality? Is there a difference between a guy who's "chill" and a guy who seems like he doesn't care about anything?
What makes a chill guy attractive, and what makes him seem immature or not serious?