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Girls, does being too chill make a guy less attractive? 😒

I'm curious about your perspective. I've been told that I'm a pretty chill and laid-back guy, but someone I liked once said she lost interest because I wasn't serious enough.

I’d say I'm a pretty confident person and I take care of myself, but personality-wise I'm very relaxed. When my friends playfully tease me or mess around with me, I usually don't react aggressively or try to fight back. I just laugh it off or ignore it because I don't feel the need to prove myself over small things.

Do girls see this kind of personality as unattractive or as a good quality? Is there a difference between a guy who's "chill" and a guy who seems like he doesn't care about anything?

What makes a chill guy attractive, and what makes him seem immature or not serious?

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u/Few_Quote95 — 39 minutes ago

I don't know what to do

I applied for UK unis and got an unconditional offer, but if im going UK i'll have to leave like next month and thats so soon🥀. Should i just go uni here?

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u/Left-Living-6737 — 1 hour ago

I don't think I'm alone with this...

I was bullied during three different phases of my school life.

When I was 5 or 6 years old, some of my schoolmates forced me to eat flowers and leaves from the ground, and they even locked me in a room.

Then, when I was 14–16 years old, another type of bullying started. During exam days, some classmates would constantly come to me asking for answers because I usually scored the highest marks in the entire division. I had severe anxiety before exams, and they knew that, yet they still kept pressuring me for answers, even when I was having panic attacks.

Around that same time, I also attended tuition classes. Because I got good grades, a couple of teachers gave me a little extra attention and encouragement. Some of the boys there started spreading rumors that I had slept with two of those teachers and that was the reason I got good grades.

I've mostly moved on and don't feel sorry for myself anymore. What I really want to know is: are there other students who have experienced or are currently experiencing bullying from classmates, schoolmates, teachers, or even people at tuition or other extracurricular classes—whether physically or mentally? I'd like to know I'm not the only one.🥲( It will help with my little research)

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u/Imnotcool6912 — 9 hours ago
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Difference between a web card and PayPal

I'm using Sampath Vishwa, and in the app I see an option called "web card" and right below it I see "PayPal". As what I've heard from a friend, the web card can be used to conduct online transactions without giving my card details. But then that's kinda the same thing PayPal does, hiding your info.

Is there an actual difference between those services? If yes, what are they? And what is more beneficial to use?

edit: I'm new to banking so any knowledge that can be shared about it is greatly appreciated :)

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u/Serious-Host-2076 — 9 hours ago
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Does anyone know where i can get some hard drives for storage for cheap?

I need some hard drives to store my movie and game installation files. They don't need to be new or fast. since i plan to move them from those drives to my NVME when plan to use them. They just need to store the files.

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u/GiveMe9Chips — 9 hours ago
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Why do some people keep noticing the time 11:11?

Recently, two of my friends told me they keep looking at the clock exactly at 11:11, and it's been happening quite often. They both think it's a bit strange.

Has this happened to anyone else? Do you keep noticing the same time over and over, especially 11:11? I'm curious to hear your experiences.

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u/Ok_Age_9804 — 18 hours ago
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Good place to browse and buy an electric guitar and amp?

Soo, currently have a bootleg Gibson acoustic (literally called Grason istg), looking to branch out into the hobby and buy an electric. Something relatively inexpensive, under 100k. Suggestions on guitar and amp models, stores to browse, etc... would be much appreciated.

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u/Tech_guy_375 — 22 hours ago
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Is it really this hard to find people in Sri Lanka who genuinely want to make cinema ?

Is it really this hard to find people in Sri Lanka who genuinely want to make cinema?

I'm not talking about people who just want to make a few reels or shoot videos as a hobby.

I'm talking about people who genuinely love cinema as an art form, people who get excited about storytelling, visual language, character driven films, meaningful performances, and creating something that feels honest and original.

I've been trying to make short films, but one of my biggest struggles isn't the camera or the budget it's finding people who share that same passion. In my area, I honestly haven't found anyone who's as committed to filmmaking as I am.

Maybe this is just my experience, but I often come across films that focus mainly on delivering a message, recreating commercial cinema, or following familiar trends. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that, it just isn't the kind of cinema I'm passionate about.

I'm looking for people who want to explore cinema as an art form. Films where emotions, characters, atmosphere, silence, visuals, and storytelling matter just as much as the plot. The kind of films that stay with you long after they're over.

I'm Tamil, but language doesn't matter to me. Whether you're Tamil, Sinhala, Muslim, or Burgher, if you're serious about filmmaking and want to create something honest and artistic together, I'd genuinely love to connect.

Does anyone else feel the same way? Have you found your filmmaking circle in Sri Lanka, or are you also searching for people on the same wavelength?

I'd love to hear your experiences.

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No active science discussion groups outside universities — looking to start a community (Discord)

Hi everyone, I’ve been looking for an active community where people can openly discuss science and share ideas, but outside of university-based groups there doesn’t seem to be anything accessible. Most existing options are either university-linked or have strict requirements and regulations that make it difficult for general participation.

For example, joining some established science groups like IOBSL involves formal processes, and they are mainly structured around academic or institutional members rather than open discussion.

Because of this, I wanted to ask: Is there any existing open group where people discuss and share science ideas casually? If not, I’d like to suggest starting a simple Discord community focused on general science discussion. The idea is to create a space where anyone interested can: Share and discuss science ideas Ask questions and learn together Exchange interesting research or articles Have casual, respectful science-related conversations

We can start small and informal, and if it becomes active and stable, we can later improve it or expand it into something more structured. If anyone is interested, please comment or message. Even a small group is enough to start.

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u/Ambitious_Pea_004 — 1 day ago
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Did you get proper sex education in school?

I went to a boys school and we had a female teacher for every year we had that topic. And every time we were given a reading assignment while they had to go to 'the office' for something urgent. Now I am studying Maths for ALs, I don't think I am educated on that topic at all

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u/NeckComprehensive221 — 2 days ago

Anyone else getting left out because all your friends drink and smoke,but you don't...

These dudes started at 9th grade bruh...they started smoking at the age of 15... isn't that crazy?? I'm currently at grade 12 and they all stopped inviting me to general hang outs and b-day parties...why? Simple,because i don't smoke or drink...i could have easily fallen to that trap of"just try it bro" but i know better..i have friends that fell for it and now they can't stop...They even actively called me out on this...My dad is an abusive drinker and i know what drink has done to that man..and i don't wanna end up like him.And now we no longer hang out...What would you have done in my situation?

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u/ExpressionFederal283 — 2 days ago

I joined this subreddit because the r/SriLanka one is kinda crap ngl.

The only issue is that I turned 20 back in April and I’m not sure if that’s an issue since the subreddit is literally called “Sri Lankan Teens”. If it is an issue I’ll leave, no problem.

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u/AarondaFishCat — 2 days ago
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Yevan David takes P2 at the Formula 3 Silverstone Sprint Race and becomes the first ever Sri Lankan to stand on the podium in a major Formula Racing series

u/Abi_Jurassic — 3 days ago

Uni student needs 2 mins of your time for a survey on how you choose your PickMe/Uber rides!

Hey guys,

I’m a uni student and I need your help. I have my finals coming up, and I'm currently building my final data science project around something we all use on a daily basis: PickMe/Uber.

The questions are pretty basic, day-to-day stuff about your ride-hailing habits, and I promise it'll take less than 2 minutes to finish.

Please help a bro graduate, it would mean the world!

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScEBZJ0YSVkQaN8qJOdpsoxC6oMVIx7vLfeXNMzYWUCTYJHLQ/viewform

u/theheehee006 — 2 days ago

Am I just lazy or do I need HELP !!!

I am a 18 F currently trying to get my shit together because I’m writing my AL in a year. I’m doing English lit, Japanese and Greek history and I’m finding it hard to juggle all three subjects. I keep on making time tables and studying but it never seems to work out. On top of that I’m a private candidate so I don’t have any backing from school. I try different methods to study but I always end up either giving up or not understanding anything I’m studying… I’m about to accept that I’m cooked. Sooo HELPPPPPP…..

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u/watermelons2428 — 3 days ago

I’m 20 and never had a Sri Lankan friend

So I grew up in Malaysia since I was 4 and I’ve never had a Sinhalese friend, I see posts on tiktok/insta of those tight knit female friendgroups and I want to be in one so bad😭 literally so old and never had a friend from my own country omg like I’d love to talk to someone my age about stuff I can relate with them to, the Chinese kids here are just mean asf

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u/Safe-Lychee1203 — 3 days ago