Is dating in your 30s just harder?
Problem/Goal: Anyone else here around 30 who actually wants to date, but really doesn’t wanna use dating apps? 😭
Context: I think I still prefer meeting someone organically, but honestly… how do you even do that anymore? 😂 It’s already hard enough to spot if someone is into girls without accidentally assuming, and I feel like it was easier when I was in college because there were already little queer communities where you could meet people.
Now that I’m in my 30s, it feels like everyone is busy with work, life, responsibilities, etc. And even if you do meet someone, finding a person you actually vibe with and who matches your beliefs, values, and goals feels even harder.
Maybe I’m just overthinking it, but dating in your 30s feels like a completely different game. 😭
For those of you in your late 20s/30s, how are you guys meeting people? Do you still believe in organic encounters, or did you eventually give in to dating apps? 😂