What is going on! Please help, engagement break up
Hi all, I don’t really use reddit but have no idea where to turn. Me and my fiancé (f21 and m25) have been together for two years and are both Christian. We got engaged earlier this year and have been looking for Churches and venues excitedly since, including this weekend just gone. Our relationship is great, he is the most kind, caring partner. Everything had been absolutely fine, Sunday evening comes around and after he had been to Church he sent me the loveliest goodnight text, telling me how much he loves me. That same night around midnight I get a call from him and as crazy as this is about to sound, this was exactly his words. He tells me that he has to start being honest with himself and that he no longer loves me and doesn’t want to be with me anymore. I was in shock and was sobbing to which he showed ZERO emotion, I even said to him you clearly don’t care, to which he responded saying that’s correct because he has no emotion right now since he is feeling depressed. It is worth noting that last week he started antidepressants and I’m wondering if this has anything to do with it. All week we had a lovely time and great day outings, he always is so loving and constantly tells me how in love with me he is. Yesterday evening (the day after this all happened), I called him and asked if he would go a drive with me, he refused but I pleaded and he gave in. I needed closure and to understand. I try and help him as much as I can with his depression and wanted to know what I need to do more to help. On this drive he told me the exact same things as he did during the breakup call, HOWEVER at the end he told me not to contact him for 2 weeks and once those 2 weeks are over he will get back to me and let me know if he wants to be with me!!! Please help, I am so heartbroken, I have just got my wedding dress too. I am so in love with him and we are truly best friends. He has never acted like this before, he is so wonderful. I know he goes through episodes of depression but this is different as he says he has no emotion and has just started this medication. I asked him why did u tell me you loved me Sunday evening but by Sunday night you didn’t, he told me because he meant it but for some reason his emotions for EVERYTHING in his life has gone. I noticed on the drive he had also taken his engagement ring off and when asked why he said “Why would I wear it when it symbolises my love and commitment to you which I don’t feel anymore”. Could this be the medication causing this?