Trying to figure out what’s going on 😐 Google is all surgery images.
I had surgery for bowel involved endometriosis 3 months ago, and for 2 years now have had drs and nurses say I don’t have a rectocele and I’m too young (my colorectal Dr just 4 months ago diagnosed a small rectocele) yet I absolutely can not go to the bathroom without extreme splinting. Anyway come 3 days ago, I’ve been nearly unable to pee at all. Sat with a washcloth on my belly for hours to get dribbles out. Then decided to feel if something was going on and my urethra is like way displaced and pushed far up with a bulge under it and I can clearly see/feel my cervix, and my vaginal opening is crazy looking. Nothing is actively falling out of me but I feel like I have 50lbs of water in my lower abdomen and like if I relax my pelvic floor (which I don’t see to be able to all of a sudden) that things wouldn’t stay in place. I’m having an insanely hard time going to the bathroom in both areas. The abdominal ache is awful and I’m finding myself just irritable angry without realizing it’s probably because I’ve been in constant pain. I went to the er 2 days ago due to not voiding for nearly 2 days, they gave me a cath, zero exam, and said I look fine on ct and ultrasound 😐 I’m obviously going to make an appt with a specialist or maybe go to my endo surgeon but wtf can I do in the meantime and how do I know if it’s something I need immediately taken care of or just deal with it until I see a Dr? The pain is insane, I’m so exhausted, I’m finding myself patience as a mom is beyond thin and that’s really really bothering me.
Side note, I do have EDS, and have had 3 abdominal surgeries thus far if that changes anything.