u/Firm-Collection-3412

problem/goal: i want to know if this guy likes me without asking him

context: So this guy added me on ig last year and I accepted his request since he's a friend of my best friend in jhs. He's been constantly liking my posts. I didn't overthink everything since I feel like it's a very normal thing to do.

Everything changed when I added something on my notes about selling a fish (as a joke to post on TikTok) and he replied to it. I told him it was a joke and he just laughed at it. Right now and then we started talking. He keeps on replying if I'm posting an ig story ( I actually left him on read lang minsan kasi hindi ko alam if ano ang irereply sa "HAHAHAHA" nya). I grew more interested in him so I gave him a little flirty messages and he would also do the same.

One time I asked my friend about him and I was shocked that he knew that we both were chatting. I immediately asked him if I'm the one na pinaparinggan niya sa ig notes. Ang my friend told me that it could possibly me or the "educ student". (I actually opened the topic abt the educ student with him and he keeps on insisting na sasabihin nya kahit ayaw ko pero nung tinanong ko na sya nagging busy na sya HAHAHAHAHA)

my mom got busy these past few weeks and na limtan niyag pay. when ang last nga pwede mo pay sa down payment for college and also sa med cert pud diay?

I just want to ask if there's an apartment near Silliman that's got 2 bedrooms and pwede mo cook and do laundry. Our budget is only around (6-10k). We've been having trouble finding one on Facebook since nobody is responding to our messages about their apartments. Help me guys because school is starting soon huhu. THANK YOU 🙏

I've come to the point where I want to confess to this guy but I'm kinda scared about it. I've never confessed before and it's been hard for me. I just want to ask you guys if this approach is good and help me add or delete something. (your opinions is much appreciated)

" i know that it's been weeks since we met but i just want to let you know that i like you. it may seem very early to tell you this but i don't want to wait any longer. i also want to ask you if you also like me ba? i've also been dying to ask about what's our setup? listen, if you are not interested in me then i get it and i will leave you alone, no questions asked. sorry for asking you at this hour since i can't sleep if i don't get an answer. thank you:)"

Problem/Goal: Is it worth it to confess to someone who's been giving me mixed signals? Should I take a risk? Can you also give me any advice on how to do it? What should I do? I'm scared of rejection too. How can I do this without being scared?

Context: I've been dating this guy for almost a month and we actually clicked. We both have similarities when it comes to wants and preferences. I've also been into his apartment a couple of times and we spend a lot of time together. I've been loving his company for quite a while now and yes, I think I'm starting to like him more. But the problem is that when we chat it feels very casual and bland. Like there's no sweet messages nor hints that he likes me (ik we're not in a relationship but still). I want him to be direct with me if he likes me or not so I can move on.

I met this guy on a dating app and he's a newbie there (I know because me and my friends use to download the app most of the time). So he wanted to meet me and have a date and I simply said yes. I told him that I'll be in his city in a week so it was ok. I changed my mind a week later since it was so hot and decided to spend a day at his place. He didn't agreed at first but then he changed his mind too since he was fully packed that day because of his activities in school.

Fast forward on the day we met, he fetched me at the house of my aunt. We started talking and I was a little interested in him. He's not the type of guy who keeps yapping about anything that doesn't involve life and family. So we went to his apartment and spend the rest of the day together and I went home after that.

I came by almost everyday at his apartment and felt welcome. I was kind of into him because he's been showing me signs that he likes me and he cooks well too. He brushes my hair when i'm about to go home, he makes me my fav food, he brings my bag everytime we go out and many more. But when he chats me, it feels very casual like there's no flirting or anything. I feel like we're just friends.

The other problem is he won't also tell me if he likes me. It's nearly a month of dating and I just want him to tell me if he's interested or not. I can't tell him directly because I'm scared of rejection. HELPP!!