u/Firm-Jeweler-3329

I love big, roomy bags that can hold everything and more, but at the moment I’m using a small one.

What do you think I’m like and what I do? It’ll be interesting to see how it looks from the outside

Bag
Laptop bag
Laptop
2x phones (I took photos on my other phone)
Flash drive
Headphones
Charger
Key
Money
A money clip (I don't have that much money, haha)
Headache tablets 2x
Eye drops
Nasal drops
Needle and thread
Nose mint
Gum
Lip liner
Mascara
Lip balm
Lipstick
USB 2x
Cat food 🐈‍⬛
My lunch 🍊

I’m very restless and have had attention deficit disorder all my life, so learning languages is difficult for me. I lose focus straight away, I want everything at once, and I prefer to do several things at the same time.

I’m at B1 level and have a lot of trouble with grammar, I just forget it straight away, and I also find it hard to remember words.

Not knowing a foreign language is really holding back my career development. I feel really ashamed of myself that my peers know several languages, whilst I can’t even manage to learn just one.

Please share your experience, apart from those who were born in the country or simply moved there and learnt the language naturally.

The advice to ‘live for yourself’ is very abstract and general what practical advice would you have given yourself 5, 10, 20, 30 or 40 years ago?