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Me (25F) and my husband (25M) have been married for about 2 years now (5 years together total). In the beginning of our marriage the sex wasn’t so bad and he would put more effort into pleasing me but as time has gone on, I feel like he only cares about his own pleasure. There’s rarely any foreplay anymore and he never makes me finish. For about two months now we haven’t been having sex and on top of all of this, he’s gained a significant amount of weight and stopped caring about his body and our sex has become much worse. I don’t even feel good anymore and I’ve tried talking to him but nothing has really changed. I really enjoy sex and I feel intimacy is a huge part in our marriage but he’s just not pleasing me. What do I do in this situation?

TLDR: We stopped having sex and I genuinely don’t enjoy it anymore because I get no pleasure. Any advice would be nice.

Me and my husband have been married for about 2 years now (5 years together total). In the beginning of our marriage the sex wasn’t so bad and he would put more effort into pleasing me but as time has gone on, I feel like he only cares about his own pleasure. There’s rarely any foreplay anymore and he never makes me finish. For about two months now we haven’t been having sex and on top of all of this, he’s gained a significant amount of weight and stopped caring about his body and our sex has become much worse. I don’t even feel good anymore and I’ve tried talking to him but nothing has really changed. I really enjoy sex and I feel intimacy is a huge part in our marriage but he’s just not pleasing me. What do I do in this situation?

Me and my husband have been married for about 2 years now (5 years together total). In the beginning of our marriage the sex wasn’t so bad and he would put more effort into pleasing me but as time has gone on, I feel like he only cares about his own pleasure. There’s rarely any foreplay anymore and he never makes me finish. For about two months now we haven’t been having sex and on top of all of this, he’s gained a significant amount of weight and stopped caring about his body and our sex has become much worse. I don’t even feel good anymore and I’ve tried talking to him but nothing has really changed. I really enjoy sex and I feel intimacy is a huge part in our marriage but he’s just not pleasing me. What do I do in this situation?