u/First_Desk_3962

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Yesterday I was talking to my mother, explaining her some important career decision I need to make. There are risks involved. She asked me one or two things to understand and then gave her full support.

Isn't this what we need as children, a supportive words from parents.

I have seen people whose parents are not that open or supportive, so it was a sigh of relief.

I was really happy. Felt like sharing.

My father was also like this. I remember in my first college exam I scored average marks but I was high scorer in school. I was upset with results. What my father did at that time is engraved on my memory. He got up, went to his shirt, pulled up a 100rs note and told me to buy sweets. He said I still passed with 1st division marks and it is good enough. I got so emotional at that time.

I want to talk about a topic that affects me deeply: moral values. I'm writing this because of something that triggered these thoughts today.

A school friend I've known for about 16 years, who recently got engaged to his long-time girlfriend, told me he hooked up with another girl a couple of weeks ago. Basically, they had sex—and the girl is also engaged to someone else. I was shocked to hear this because he was never "that guy." I never would have expected this kind of thing from him.

This pulled me back into a long debate I've been having with myself for a while: What are moral values? What are the limits people will push to break them? And how do we even define when a moral code has been broken?

To give some context, where I come from, we had a subject in school called "Moral Science." We were taught all the moral values an "ideal" person should follow to live an honorable life. Honor was important. We were taught to uphold our values. I was a child who took all of this very seriously, and you could say many of these lessons were permanently imprinted in my head.

It wasn't just that subject. In our English and Hindi literature classes, we had so many chapters teaching us that a good person should never lie, always respect others, help people, never hurt anyone, and always stay true to their word. The same things are taught in religion as well (although I won't go into a religious debate, as I know how sensitive that topic can be).

The point is, we were taught these things from childhood, and people like me took those lessons to heart.

But now in adulthood (I am 27M), I am realizing how completely different the real world is. There is hardly anyone who actually practices those moral codes. In relationships, people are cheating, lying, and hurting their partners. In business, you see people breaking trust and lying. Our entire system seems to run on lies, hurt, misleading talk, and propaganda. Everyone just thinks about themselves.

So why are we taught these moral values in childhood if they seem to be of no use in the real world?

I am no saint. I play my part in bending morals sometimes, but it costs me. If I lie to someone—which I rarely do because I find it very hard—I make sure the lie isn't hurtful. Even then, I will overthink that lie for days. I try not to break people's trust and I try to stay true to my promises. But I see a lot of people who aren't like this at all. Even the ones who preach religion and spirituality are often no different.

At the end of the day, it’s not them who end up feeling miserable about it—it’s me.

Now, we can debate that this is moral policing, and that each individual’s morals might be different. But I have to ask: you don’t have to hurt others, right? Breaking a moral code without harming someone else—emotionally, physically, or financially—is still possible, isn't it?

I want to know your thoughts on this.

Hi, based on you work experience or your network, can you suggest names of all the good companies I should keep looking for to apply for DE role.

I have 4 yoe.

I need names of companies where I can apply directly or maybe ask for referrals from people.

Hi, I work in TCS and as a strict 90 days NP, I do not get interview calls from other companies. Few people have suggested me to resign and then look for job offers as you would get chances if you are serving notice period.

If by then end I don't get any good offer I can revoke my resignation.

Is this a good idea?

I am currently in TCS with 4YOE, joined as fresher. I have experience majorly in AWS and building logs etl pipelines. I am learning trending DE techs on my own like Snowflake, dbt, Airflow.

How can I target the big product based companies like Google, Amazon, AWS, Microsoft etc. Like how can I get interview opportunities?