u/Firstranker2023

29F (I look way younger tho but the documents say otherwise), Muslim, based in Mumbai. Hate being here but a girl gotta marry 😭 so why not try this.

Arranged marriage setups honestly aren’t for me. I like having history with someone, inside jokes, random lore, shared brain cells… you get it.

I can talk to anyone and everyone about literally anything, but I want someone who barely talks to the world and yaps only with me 😭
(yes, put me first 🥰)

Looking for someone whose halal/haram ratio matches mine because compatibility matters okay 😭

Prefer a calm, kind, emotionally mature guy because I already bring enough chaos for both of us. Also if you lie like your life depends on it, sir please keep scrolling 😭

I like fashion, good conversations, and anything that gives me adrenaline.
I love weddings (obviously), marriage we’ll figure out together 💀
But genuinely, I value real partnership, companionship, and becoming best friends naturally without forcing it.

Please if u slide in dm
It wont qualify it will be
Basic details even before hi hello

I.e

Age
Location
Job role

Also i wont entertain anybody unless i see your aadhar card with same name and age (yes) i am not right in the head and protect myself always 😭

Let’s not waste each other’s time 😭

I 29F have a background in social media/community building, so naturally I’ve spent years building communities and seeing how powerful they can be in helping people navigate real-life situations too.

Right now though, I wanted to do something for a personal reason.

, currently looking for a match, and I’ve noticed a lot of girls in this sub are kind of in the same boat 😭

I’m on Muzz, Shaadi, Jeevansathi, etc. Recently, I added a few guys from Muzz to my Instagram, and suddenly I started seeing 2–3 girls in my suggestions where the ONLY mutual followers were the same guys 💀

That’s when I realized:

* the girls clearly have a type
* the guys clearly have a type
* and we’re all somehow circulating around the same pool 😭

I was previously engaged, and unfortunately it ended because the person changed significantly toward the end. One example: he had always told me he wanted his own place after marriage, but right before the wedding he completely flipped and started insisting I live with his parents. There were several things like that, and I chose to walk away rather than enter a marriage based on promises that suddenly changed.

What made this even stranger is that he’s now on Muzz too, presenting himself in ways that directly contradict my actual experience with him.

And honestly… that made me wonder how many of us are unknowingly talking to people whose profiles and “values” may not fully match reality.

I really don’t want another heartbreak because of polished bios or carefully curated impressions.

So I had this thought:

What if we made a girls-only WhatsApp or Instagram group just to help vet profiles from Muzz/Shaadi/Jeevansathi etc.?

Not for gossip or exposing people unnecessarily, but more like:

* “Has anyone spoken to this guy?”
* “Did his actions actually match what he says?”
* “Any red flags?”
* “Is he telling completely different things to different women?”

Basically just helping each other save time, emotional energy, and avoid unnecessary heartbreak 😭

Would anyone actually be interested in something like this?

I 29F have a background in social media/community building, so naturally I’ve spent years building communities and seeing how powerful they can be in helping people navigate real-life situations too.

Right now though, I wanted to do something for a personal reason.

currently looking for a match, and I’ve noticed a lot of girls in this sub are kind of in the same boat 😭

I’m on Muzz, Shaadi, Jeevansathi, etc. Recently, I added a few guys from Muzz to my Instagram, and suddenly I started seeing 2–3 girls in my suggestions where the ONLY mutual followers were the same guys 💀

That’s when I realized:

* the girls clearly have a type
* the guys clearly have a type
* and we’re all somehow circulating around the same pool 😭

I was previously engaged, and unfortunately it ended because the person changed significantly toward the end. One example: he had always told me he wanted his own place after marriage, but right before the wedding he completely flipped and started insisting I live with his parents. There were several things like that, and I chose to walk away rather than enter a marriage based on promises that suddenly changed.

What made this even stranger is that he’s now on Muzz too, presenting himself in ways that directly contradict my actual experience with him.

And honestly… that made me wonder how many of us are unknowingly talking to people whose profiles and “values” may not fully match reality.

I really don’t want another heartbreak because of polished bios or carefully curated impressions.

So I had this thought:

What if we made a girls-only WhatsApp or Instagram group just to help vet profiles from Muzz/Shaadi/Jeevansathi etc.?

Not for gossip or exposing people unnecessarily, but more like:

* “Has anyone spoken to this guy?”
* “Did his actions actually match what he says?”
* “Any red flags?”
* “Is he telling completely different things to different women?”

Basically just helping each other save time, emotional energy, and avoid unnecessary heartbreak 😭

Would anyone actually be interested in something like this?

hey girls, anyone up to go watch The Devil Wears Prada tomorrow?

thinking of a casual plan, nothing fancy just a quick movie outing. lmk if you’re in (ONLY GIRLS)

Edit: I Am a girl myself!!