u/Fit-Raspberry4067

Salam,

Over the last year, I’ve been in the talking stage with a couple of Muslim girls. These are girl that are hijabi, dress modestly, and come from good families. I’ve noticed though however that a week or two in, these girls would start talking about sexual stuff or tell me they’re feeling a certain type of way. To give you context, I never initiate nor do I ever steer that convo in an indirect or manipulative way.

I know some of you might think maybe these girls find you attractive to that point and I’m flexing right now , but I swear it just makes me feel like they’re not taking me seriously and just figured I’ll have my fun with this bozo before moving on. I’ve always heard of girls talk about being objectified and that’s straight up how I feel right now. Afterwards they’ll just start focusing on my physical attributes and go “did you make sure to hit the gym today“ or “you’re balding a little get on minoxidil” or “show me your arms”.

Need a girls perspective on this

I had met a girl from the gulf who I really wanted to marry. Shes everything I wanted in a wife and more. However, I got turned off from the fact that bringing a non US citizen to the states could take 3 years or more, which prompted me to end things.

I can’t stop thinking about her and wanted to hear about Americans experience marrying someone from abroad and how long the visa process took for them?

Hey guys,

I grew up in both Texas and Saudi and was wondering where I could meet Arab expats who moved to Jersey from the GCC?