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What i mean by this is how can i get people to want and enjoy my presence
Every time i’m around people i feel as if people just get bored of me and don’t feel as if they want to engage with me
For example- When i hang around with people they always talk about my friend who i’m going to name Emily
They will always talk about Emily and how great her presence is when she’s around
Everyone loves her but i cant depict what people enjoy about her company so much

Is there any tips i can use to seem more approchable to people? For people to acknowledge and want my existence
- For extra info i am very introverted and get very anxious when making eye contact
I have no diagnoses
I can be very extroverted when around people i’m comfortable with

I also just feel like i feel very tired all the time- Unable to provide energy within interactions
- any tips on how to solve this aswell?

I think it’s one of the thing causing my lack of confidence so i’m trying to do something about it.
Every boy i see i want to know what he thinks of me, if he thinks i’m cute
as soon as I make eye contact with a boy my mind stupidly goes straight to thinking that he likes me

How do i stop this?
I’ve been this way for a few years and i think it’s just been a coping mechanism since i use to be very insecure
However i’m not insecure anymore and this habit still occurs

Any tips?

I’m not insecure about myself at all but i never feel comfortable in my own body.
I personally think i’m quite nice looking
but i tend to threat a lot about what other people think,
tips?

I literally just cannot feel secure with myself to the point where it’s giving me really bad anxiety.
I don’t really care but I threat about every decision i make

I really want to be a confident person but i can’t

Any tips?

I’m going to start off with an example,
today me and my friend went to an event - ideas for future careers.

Every single stall we went up to we would speak to a person at the stall.
EVERY SINGLE person practically only maintained eye contact with my friend
I almost felt as if I wasn’t apart of the conversations.
I was taking part in the conversations, asking questions etc
I maintained eye contact, smiled and tried to seem very open, nodding and taking part.

I’m quite introverted and my friend is quite extroverted but in these situations i want to know if maybe people can pick up on that
even if it’s not obvious

or could this just be pretty privilege?

Please drop some thoughts and opinions on this!!

Also some tips on how to actually be acknowledged better in conversations would help!!

I’m going to start off with an example,
today me and my friend went to an event - ideas for future careers.

Every single stall we went up to we would speak to a person at the stall.
EVERY SINGLE person practically only maintained eye contact with my friend
I almost felt as if I wasn’t apart of the conversations.
I was taking part in the conversations, asking questions etc
I maintained eye contact, smiled and tried to seem very open, nodding and taking part.

I’m quite introverted and my friend is quite extroverted but in these situations i want to know if maybe people can pick up on that
even if it’s not obvious

or could this just be pretty privilege?

Please drop some thoughts and opinions on this!!

Also some tips on how to actually be acknowledged better in conversations would help!!

I already know she’s going to beat me but it just hurts knowing i’m going to be seen as not as good as her,
it also hurts how lowk no one believes that i will win 😓

any tips?!?!

It’s only a little amount but i am only 18 and have had this issue since i was about 14,
I have never taken part in any sexual activities or done anything down there let alone had kids
this is becoming quite an annoying issue.

Any tips??