Dirty house growing up
My hose was filthy growing up. Moldy food in the fridge, dust build up, dog toilet wasn’t properly disinfected. My mother never cleaned. Occasionally she’d wipe over the kitchen and bathroom, but that was it. If we had guests (rare) she would deep clean, so they didn’t think she was a bad mum. My mother taught me and my sister how to clean when we were 8 and 6, and bought us our own cleaning caddy’s, and we were expected to clean the house. That never really happened, we were children who wanted to play. She used to, and still does, blame us for having a dirty house. We never clean/cleaned, we were ‘needy’ (not true, we spent our days at home and rarely went out). She spent all her time on her phone. Basically, our house is like those obsessive compulsive cleaner videos. Essentially, we have been expected to clean an extremely filthy house from childhood, and our mother had always blamed us for the dirt, even though that isn’t the class at all.
Now I’m very clean and hygienic, not OCD, but I do pride myself on having a clean space
Anyone else have this