u/Flat_Week_190

Starting from scratch..

I know the best time to plant was years and years ago, but the second best time is now. Is there any perennials that are especially easy or fast growing? Would love to have anything that comes back each year but is fairly simple to maintain. Zone 6a. Thanks!

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u/Flat_Week_190 — 6 days ago

Ectopic question

Does abdominal pain need to be accompanied by bleeding in order to be concerned for bursting ectopic?

I should be around 8 weeks but miscarried around 5-6 weeks. My HCG is still creeping up so slowly. Last Wednesday it was at 400. It usually jumps 20-70 every 48 hours (rechecking today). Ive had two scans the last two weeks (last one was Friday). Nothing to be seen anywhere, no thickened endometrium or anything but a ovarian cyst they didnt seem concerned about.

Today I'm having some pretty bad cramping, it all seems bowel related. I haven't bled in 2 weeks. Not sure how concerned I should be.

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u/Flat_Week_190 — 12 days ago

Going through my third loss, and I just cant shake this feeling of what im doing wrong in life. Watching everyone around me effortlessly (and accidentally) have healthy pregnancies and get to hold and raise their babies. What did they do differently to deserve that? And why cant that be my reality?

I know logically that its not true and there's nothing i can do but this feeling is eating at me. Ive also had a history of abuse in my childhood and it just feels like all the suffering is reserved for certain people and then others get to walk through life with no suffering at all. Its so unfair. Im so sorry all of you are in this boat as well.

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u/Flat_Week_190 — 20 days ago