What to do in this situation? - Inappropriate Messages discovered
I (18F) and my Boyfriend (17M) have been together for about two years in June. We’ve been together since I he was 15 and I was 16. As our relationship has progressed we have begun being intimate over the phone including images and things of that nature including after I turned 18 In December. Yes I acknowledge it’s dumb on my part, but I was really caught up in my feelings for him. He got grounded on Sunday for an unrelated thing his mom looked through his phone and initially didn’t find anything until she went through his ICloud she found everything. He’s been grounded from every electronic and anything he could possibly have. I graduate tomorrow and his mom is letting him come to my grad party and to come to my graduation party this Saturday potentially. I don’t know what to do, I don’t know if I should contact his mom and apologize or if I should give some space. I respect her so much and I feel terrible and like I am a let down too her and my boyfriend. I don’t think she has made my mom aware of this situation yet. But I know eventually she could find out. I don’t know if I should tell my mom upfront or if I should wait till graduation is over. I just can’t fight the nerves and overwhelming anxiety I have about this situation and I know this situation will make it to where I can’t enjoy it. I know I brought this situation upon myself but I still could use some help. Thank you so much.