u/Fluffy_Ebb8712

Funny , ung kilig na naffeel ko nung college ako. Andito sya. Naghahanap. Yearning to find that love.

One attempt after the other. Mabilis ako maka recover e.

I don't know if it's the age, but lately narerealize ko. Mahirap talaga mahanap ung para syo.

So there's this tiny voice inside me. She told me. Tama na. Give it up kung wala talaga.

Maybe, baka magtry ako. Once or twice uli. Then I rest my case.

Kudos dun sa nahanap ung love na un. Akala ko din I found him. But he has broken me. Yeah, maybe Wala akong swerte.

I'm talking to a man whom I met on here. For 2.months. Everything seems so peaceful and quiet. I think that's good, right?

But why am I feeling bored? All he tells me are sweet words. But I feel it's all scripted. Day to day. He tells me things that are all similar. Or the same day in and day out.

We haven't had the chance to have discussions. Or even get to know each other. He's busy at work on weekdays. And on weekends he's busy with errands.

Another factor is the time difference. He's in Europe. He speaks good English. So I don't think there is a communication barrier.

He calls me his gf. But I don't know much about him. Just he's single. I know what his work is. He messages all throughout but only during his breaks.

I was hoping to know more about him. He plans to come over. Do I just wait for that time. For us to know more about each other?

Am I expecting too much? Or are we ok?

LF 50 and up mature men ready for a serious relationship.

-Straight men only pls

-loyal and will never cheat since we will be on LDR

-willing to talk and not be an avoidant if we have issues

-sweet and caring

I am able to reciprocate the care and love given to me.

I'll tell you more once we get to know each other.

Para sa mga separated Jan. Paano po kayo nakalaya?

Ung hiwalay na po kayo and how do you live your life again?

Context: legally married. Housemates pa kami ngayon. 1 yr na kaming ganito. Gusto ko na makalaya.

Worry ko Kasi kapag magkaron ako ng new bf

Pwede nya ko kasuhan. Gusto ko sana gumawa ng separation agreement. Kaso alam ko naman Hindi un enough.

Mga siszt na married pero separated. Paano kayo nakaka move on?

Mga issues ko sa knya. Verbal abuse. Emotional abuse. Sinusumbat nya na Hindi ako nagwwork. E kc we had 2 special needs kids. I was working Naman before. Kung active kayo sa FB. Kilala nyo si boy 50-50. Ganun sya. Ayw nya mag work. Evident sa 3x n nya naalis s work dahil sa absences.

Biro mo special needs kids na tamad pa mag work. Ako na lang dw mag abroad. And magpadala ng suporta. Ganyang klaseng lalaki

Anyway. Wala p akong pang annulment e. Paano Ang ginawa nyo kung married pero nag move on kayo. Ogag kc to. Baka baligtarin ako .

Wag po sanang Mang bash. Help is what I need po.

Context: 1 yr na kaming "separated" but still housemates. Nung time na un, I told him already na ayusin namin kanya kanyang Buhay for the kids. You go my way. I go mine.

Bakit? Madami na pong issue. I'm verbally and emotionally abused. Kapag meron syang hindi gusto sa nasabi ko. Mumurahin nya ako sabay hampas o suntok sa pader. Ilan beses na nya nagawa. Siya din po si boy 50-50.

Walang halaga ang hirap ko as stay at home mom. I had to stop work at naging sickly 2 kids namin. Yan kinakagalit nya over the years.

Hindi n dw uso Ang padre de pamilya dpat 2 kmi nag pprovide. Agree naman ako. Kaya nga I was working. At mas Malaki kita ko s knya. And then nagkaron ng health condition Ang 2 bata.

Now, balik sa question ko. Balak ko na bumukod. Gusto ko sya papirmahin ng "separation agreement". Wala pa kc akong pang annulment. Just to somehow have a document saying na "hiwalay" na kami..

Paano ba gawin un? Pwede bang iabot ko lang. Papirma then notarize. Need ko ng document kc if ever magka relationship ako in the future.. pwede nya ako baligtarin. At sabihin I cheated. When in fact sya gumawa nun.

Also, nagsabi sya ok Ang annulment Basta ako gagastos. At sinasabihan nya ako na afam patulan ko. Ganyan sya ka ogag.

Sorry mahaba na to. Dami pa ko story pero that's basically ung main concern.