u/ForeverOk72

im going to start grabbing customers hands and shedding tears telling them if they don’t accept the option then im going to lose my job and be homeless.

i 21f have a bunch of friends who are in relationships, it sucks SO much, i wouldn’t say im conventionally attractive (which is probably part of the problem) my main issue is getting on dating apps and finding a guy i like and then he wants to “hang out” well obviously we know where that’s going so when i tell him i don’t do hookup culture i end up being ghosted.

there’s this guy who i think is really cute at my job but we work in 2 entirely different departments and he barely ever comes out of his because he’s always so busy, ive come across his instagram before and he’s single, as well as we have a ton in common with similar interests and he seems like a funny guy but atp there is no way in hell we will ever get close enough to actually talk and/or exchange socials genuinely so i’m about to just give up.

moral of the story i get im young and stuff so i have a bunch of time but at the same time i yearn for a special connection with someone, i like going out and doing things a lot and i would like to do them with someone in a romantic sense and not just a friend platonically, idk, it’s so hard to find a guy who doesn’t just want to hook up when it’s at my age and it’s horrible, im not even a save for marriage type of gal i just would like to actually like genuinely commit to something before sleeping with someone idk why that’s so much to ask for.