Give me some advice
My avoidant broke up with me last year because after getting engaged he was not planning the wedding and when I insisted, he fought, blamed and packed his bags.
Meanwhile, during the no contact he ended up losing job, going bankrupt, was stuck in a legal consequence, lost his car and went back home.
After few months he reached out to tell me all this and again came back and we got married.
I accepted him, again we started living together and he started taking his own space. Used to jump to job and gym, didn’t communicate, no emotional connection, slept in a different bed, no physical intimacy.
Again fought with me for a silly reason and called cops on me. Told the cops that he doesn’t want to implicate me but somehow they still arrested me.
He tried to reach out indirectly but I was too scared to talk to him. Now I am blocked.
Will you please advise me what to do ?