u/Forgesword

Intimacy within marriage

My wife and I have been married for 4 years.

Everything else is great; she makes more money than I do, she cooks most of the time, she cleans well (I do at least half the chores - feel as though it’s necessary to mention that I’m not sitting around doing nothing lol). So simply put, 90% of our relationship is great!

But she doesn’t show intimacy. She pulls away when I go for a kiss, she gives me a single hand hug or a pat on the back, she doesn’t have sexual desire. She says I’m good looking but doesn’t want to have sex.

Note: Before we were married she was all over me like a tiger, and we even talked about how marriages die sexually after and she said over and over “I wouldn’t do that”.

We also hve a child, and she’s a great mother.

Coming from a family where my dad would hug me and give me a kiss on the forehead sometimes, and my mom was smothering me in hugs - it feels like this 10% that were missing is 90% heavier than the other 90%.

I’ve grown resentful after 4 years… I don’t want to leave because I love her and my daughter, but my heart feels empty at times.

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u/Forgesword — 4 days ago
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New system, who dis? (Online)(Other)(Saturday 12PM PST)

Hey all!

LF 1 player for my campaign, we are on session 5.

It utilizes a new system instead of 5e. The basics of it are:
You never use any dice other than a d5.
There are no classes, with a 3 tier system (catered toward newbies).
All rules in a Google Sheet link.

The campaign:
Started ina church, burned down by cultists, the head of the church led the party below the church into the city sewage system to safety. But alas, someone is waiting for them at the end of the tunnels! They got out, questioned by the constable of the town and they left. They got some gold, went to an inn, stole from some villages, and now they are in a gambling hall! Some party members got info, some got a hostage, and some got kidnapped! Next session we will resume from there.

Feel free to DM me for more info!

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u/Forgesword — 7 days ago

I have a good 5 cav match and 5 mage match.

Im looking to make an inf line up now.

Here are the heroes I have: Kuma, Kuan, Goresh, Skogul, Madeline, Theia, Nika, Hosk, Joren is 5xxx, Mu, and lastly Indis.

Currently the pairings I found that work are KumaKuan, HoskGor, JorenSko, MadTheia.

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u/Forgesword — 28 days ago