[21M]I tried to save someone who was still stuck on their ex and ended up hurting myself

So I met this girl on Instagram and we started talking and at first I genuinely thought maybe something could come out of it but she was always so dry and somehow every conversation would end up being about her ex I tried to listen to her and be there for her because I thought maybe she just needed someone who actually cared but after a while it started getting to me too I wasn’t mentally doing okay because of all of this and I realized I was slowly draining myself trying to help someone who was still stuck on someone else

I didn’t leave because I hated her or anything I left because I realized I was hurting myself trying to save someone who didn’t even want to be saved maybe that sounds selfish but there’s only so much you can do for someone before you have to choose yourself too

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u/Forsaken-Scar-2376 — 14 days ago

I tried to save someone who was still stuck on their ex and ended up hurting myself

So I met this girl on Instagram and we started talking and at first I genuinely thought maybe something could come out of it but she was always so dry and somehow every conversation would end up being about her ex I tried to listen to her and be there for her because I thought maybe she just needed someone who actually cared but after a while it started getting to me too I wasn’t mentally doing okay because of all of this and I realized I was slowly draining myself trying to help someone who was still stuck on someone else

I didn’t leave because I hated her or anything I left because I realized I was hurting myself trying to save someone who didn’t even want to be saved maybe that sounds selfish but there’s only so much you can do for someone before you have to choose yourself too

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u/Forsaken-Scar-2376 — 14 days ago

So I finally left her

So I met this girl on Instagram and we started talking but she was always so dry and most of our conversations somehow ended up being about her ex I tried to be there for her and make things easier but you can’t save someone who doesn’t want to be saved so I eventually walked away

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u/Forsaken-Scar-2376 — 14 days ago