u/Forsaken_Gur4944

Hi, I’m a nineteen-year-old boy from Italy. I’m writing here because I think I don’t understand much about gay relationships. I’m curvy/chubby and I can't find someone in the 20–26 age range who appreciates me and my appearance. I’ve been abroad too, and people do exactly the same. I’ve always wanted to have my first sexual experience with a boyfriend, but when I moved abroad I decided to have sex with someone and I had awful experiences, partly because of my physical appearance. I feel horrible and used, and like no one can like me for who I am. On an app where I met people from all over the world, I noticed that only Latin guys appreciate boys like me. I don’t know what to do. Maybe I’ll have to stay alone for my whole life and I’ll never have a relationship. I don’t want old desperate men, I want to feel loved.

I’m from Italy and I’m currently an expat, but I’d like to ask you all a question. Which European country would be the “easiest” for a young Italian to move to if I want to work in a kitchen or in gastronomy?

Hi,
I’ve been living in Denmark for months, but I’m going to move out because I had some problems with work. I liked my city, even though it’s small.
There’s just one thing I didn’t like: the spiders. I’m from Italy and I’ve never seen spiders like these in my house, so I didn’t expect to see them here. Our common areas are full of medium spiders, and the situation may get worse in autumn and i think it’s awful. I know they’re harmless, but I literally hate them. I can’t stand them. I’m not afraid of other insects.
P.S. I have to move to another place (in Denmark or abroad), but now I’m worried about the quantity and size of the spiders. I can only tolerate spiders that are one millimetre long in my house. This post may seem silly, but it's a really important issue for me. I can't feel psychologically OK in a place like Aragog's lair. (I like cold places.)

Hi,
I’ve been living in Denmark for months, but I’m going to move out because I had some problems with work. I liked this city, even though it’s small.
There’s just one thing I didn’t like: the spiders. I’m from Italy and I’ve never seen spiders like these in my house, so I didn’t expect to see them here. Our common areas are full of medium spiders, and the situation may get worse in autumn and i think it’s awful. I know they’re harmless, but I literally hate them. I can’t stand them. I’m not afraid of other insects.
P.S. I have to move to another place (in Denmark or abroad), but now I’m worried about the quantity and size of the spiders. I can only tolerate spiders that are one millimetre long in my house. This post may seem silly, but it's a really important issue for me. I can't feel psychologically OK in a place like Aragog's lair. (I like cold places.)

Hi,
I’ve been living in Viborg (Denmark) for almost two months, but I’m going to move out because I had some problems with work. I liked this city, even though it’s small.
There’s just one thing I didn’t like: the spiders. I’m from Italy and I’ve never seen spiders like these in my house, so I didn’t expect to see them here. Our common areas are full of medium spiders, and the situation may get worse in autumn and i think it’s awful. I know they’re harmless, but I literally hate them. I can’t stand them. I’m not afraid of other insects.
P.S. I have to move to another place (in Denmark or abroad), but now I’m worried about the quantity and size of the spiders. I can only tolerate spiders that are one millimetre long in my house. This post may seem silly, but it's a really important issue for me. I can't feel psychologically OK in a place like Aragog's lair. (I like cold places.)