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I belong to a traditional Marwari Rajasthani vegetarian family where non-veg is simply not acceptable culturally. I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 3.5+ years now, and I genuinely see a future with him.

He is Pahadi, and while he personally eats egg and chicken, his parents eat all kinds of non-veg. This has been on my mind for a long time because I know my family will create a lot of chaos and drama around it, and I’m honestly scared they may never fully accept this relationship.

I spoke to him openly about my concerns, and he said that after marriage he is okay with keeping separate induction, utensils, etc. for non-veg in the kitchen to respect my comfort and family values.

But I still feel anxious about the cultural differences, family reactions, and whether these things become bigger after marriage.

Has anyone here been in a similar inter-caste/inter-culture relationship, especially involving vegetarian vs non-vegetarian families? How did you handle family acceptance and long-term compatibility?

Would really appreciate honest experiences/advice.

TL;DR- Traditional Marwari vegetarian family, dating a Pahadi boy who eats egg/chicken and comes from a non-veg family. We’ve been together 3.5+ years and want to marry, but I’m scared about family acceptance, cultural differences, and future chaos. He’s willing to keep separate utensils/induction for non-veg. Has anyone dealt with a similar situation?

Hi everyone,

I’m a working professional (female) looking for a single occupancy room in a fully furnished 2BHK/3BHK flat near Hi-tech city from June-end onwards.

• Gachibowli

• Kondapur

• Madhapur

• Kukatpally

Preferences:• Budget: ₹15k to 18k max (including maintenance preferred)
Looking for: Private room in shared flat preferred

• Food preference: North Indian and Vegetarian

About me:

• Working professional

• Easy-going and tidy

• Looking for a peaceful and decent living environment

Would really appreciate any flat vacancies, flatmate leads. Please DM/comment if you have any leads.

Thanks!

I’ve been working with a Big 4 in Risk & Advisory for ~5 years now. My current domain is quite niche, and honestly, growth (both in learning and salary) feels limited.

Current compensation:
- ₹6.7 LPA fixed
- ~₹1 LPA allowances + bonus

I’m now exploring a shift into Third Party Risk Management (TPRM) and recently got an opportunity:

Offer details:
- ₹12 LPA (almost 2x hike)
- 1-year contract role (third-party payroll)
- With a well-known MNC in their TPRM team
- Requires relocation

Why I’m considering it:
- Entry into TPRM (I’ve struggled to crack full-time roles despite multiple interviews)
- Strong salary jump (important for future negotiations)
- Practical exposure + a stepping stone into this domain

Concerns:
- It’s a contract role → no long-term job security
- Risk of being unemployed for 2–3 months if it doesn’t convert to full-time

My thought process:
I feel like this could be a strategic risk worth taking for long-term growth, but I’m also worried about stability.

Question to the community:
- Would you take this risk for a domain switch + salary jump?
- How risky is it to rely on a contract role in today’s market?
- Any advice from someone who has transitioned into TPRM this way?

Appreciate any honest perspectives 🙏

Hi everyone, I’m moving to Hyderabad and my office is Sanofi in Hi-tech city! My budget is around 15k-20k for rent. My preference-

1. It should be a gated society

2. Fully furnished

3. Vegetarian

Can you please suggest me the safe and budget friendly places nearby. Any suggestions/tips will be really helpful.