u/Forward_Tennis_2203

I feel like I've moved on from him. After everything I did for him, he still chose to ghost me not once, but twice. I don't want him back anymore, and honestly, I hate what he put me through.

But even after 15 days, I still feel bad for myself. Sometimes I randomly cry, and I don't even know why. I miss him, or maybe I just miss what we had. It was a long-distance relationship, and I miss having someone to tell about my day, sharing little moments, and having that "couple goals" feeling.

The confusing part is that I don't feel like talking to anyone, yet at the same time I wish I had someone. I don't know if I miss him or just the comfort and routine we had.

Has anyone else gone through this? How did you overcome it? Does this feeling eventually go away?

I want tips for healthy lifestyle and skincare like naturally home remedies and anything else i should do . I don't have any ache marks and i want tips for glowing skin and hair related too if any

.any food i should avoid eating.

Any suggestions

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Hi everyone,

I'm a 21F in a long-distance relationship with a 24M. We've been together for about 8 months now. He lives outside India, so there's a significant time zone difference between us.

Both of us have busy lives. I'm currently focused on my studies, and he works long shifts (around 12 hours a day). He does reply to my messages and we do talk, but sometimes I can't shake the feeling that he's emotionally distant.

I've brought this up with him a few times. Whenever I tell him I feel disconnected or that we don't spend enough quality time together, he says that I'm overthinking and that nothing is wrong. He reassures me that there's no issue and that he isn't hiding anything.

The thing is, I sometimes feel like if he really wanted to, he could make a little more effort—maybe wake up a bit earlier once in a while or find some extra time for a call. At the same time, I know his work schedule is demanding, and I don't want to be unreasonable.

Because of the distance and limited communication, my mind sometimes goes to worst-case scenarios. I start wondering if he's losing interest or if there's someone else, even though he has never given me concrete proof of that.

So I'm genuinely looking for outside perspectives:

Am I asking for too much in a long-distance relationship?

Is this level of communication normal when one partner works 12-hour shifts?

How do you tell the difference between someone being genuinely busy and someone slowly pulling away?

I'd appreciate honest opinions, especially from people who have been in long-distance relationships.

Thanks for reading.

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Hi everyone,

I'm a 21F in a long-distance relationship with a 24M. We've been together for about 8 months now. He lives outside India, so there's a significant time zone difference between us.

Both of us have busy lives. I'm currently focused on my studies, and he works long shifts (around 12 hours a day). He does reply to my messages and we do talk, but sometimes I can't shake the feeling that he's emotionally distant.

I've brought this up with him a few times. Whenever I tell him I feel disconnected or that we don't spend enough quality time together, he says that I'm overthinking and that nothing is wrong. He reassures me that there's no issue and that he isn't hiding anything.

The thing is, I sometimes feel like if he really wanted to, he could make a little more effort—maybe wake up a bit earlier once in a while or find some extra time for a call. At the same time, I know his work schedule is demanding, and I don't want to be unreasonable.

Because of the distance and limited communication, my mind sometimes goes to worst-case scenarios. I start wondering if he's losing interest or if there's someone else, even though he has never given me concrete proof of that.

So I'm genuinely looking for outside perspectives:

Am I asking for too much in a long-distance relationship?

Is this level of communication normal when one partner works 12-hour shifts?

How do you tell the difference between someone being genuinely busy and someone slowly pulling away?

I'd appreciate honest opinions, especially from people who have been in long-distance relationships.

Thanks for reading.