u/FoxxPrincess06

Hi everyone. I’m a 23 year old woman, and I’m dealing with issues at my work. For context, I work at a small, family owned pool place, so there’s only around 7 people who work there, including me. I’ve worked there for a year now, so it’s not like I’m that new.

Anyway, my coworkers have seemed to have bonded over essentially bullying me. All of them love to gang up on me and mess with me, even my boss does it. They tease me about my looks, my clothes, my hair, whatever they can find. Every single thing about me is questioned and put under a microscope. If I slightly change my appearance at all, I’ll get comments on it. Even how I do my job or what I’m going to have for lunch that day is picked apart.

I’m a relatively small person, I’m 4’11” and pretty skinny, and I’m constantly teased for that too. They make jokes about how I’m not strong enough to lift certain things or how I need to start lifting some weights or eat more.

This is an every day thing. Every. Single. Day. I wore different tennis shoes yesterday, and within 30 seconds of me walking in the door that morning I was getting comments.

It’s really bothering me and getting to me mentally. I can’t even talk to my boss about it because he does it too. I’m so frustrated and angry and sad because of it, and part of me thinks maybe I’m being too sensitive.

I’m in the process of getting a new job, but it’s one that takes weeks to months to go through all the steps, and I’m not even guaranteed the job yet.

Basically I’m looking for advice on how to deal with it until I can get another job, or opinions if I’m being too sensitive.

TL;DR I’m basically being teased and bullied at my workplace about everything about me. What can I do?

Hi everyone, I am a 23(F) and I’m having some issues at work. I work at a pool store with about 6 other people, including my boss, and all of them, especially when they’re all together, like to poke fun at me and make comments. I wouldn’t be so bothered by it if it was just playful hazing, but I’ve worked here for a year now, and it is an every day thing. I get questioned about everything I do and treated either like I’m an idiot or a child. I get picked on for everything about me. The way I dress, talk, walk, do my job, everything. Does anyone have any advice for dealing with it, or how to keep it from bothering me so much?

Edit: I am currently in the hiring process for potentially new job, but it’s one that takes several months to complete.

I’m just curious if any of the gods would like soda for an offering, specifically Sprite. I’m a person who never drinks soda, I never crave it, and every once in a blue moon I’ll have one but usually not finish it. Today I had the biggest craving for a Sprite so I went to get one during my lunch break. I went to chic fil an and they have strawberry hibiscus sprite. It’s very good, but I have to wonder if one of the gods wanted one as well lol.