Obsession movie
Ever since Obsession came out digitally (and even before then), every time I open Instagram Reels, TikTok, there are boys wishing for their girlfriends or future girlfriends to act like Nikki. Did we miss the point of the movie? Or performative mean girls saying on social media "I'm literally nikki",both are so so bad 🤦🏼♀️
I'm mentioning this because it's concerning, but also because I was told by my own boyfriend that he wished I was obsessed with him like Nikki was with Bear. I told him I am obsessed with him, but obviously not 'Nikki-obsessed,' and he said he still wished I was obsessed like her , which kinda bothers me.
I get that maybe it's ragebait or he was just joking but he ragebaits me by making jokes about my appearances. One time saying he wants to kick me in my teeth(I have problems with my teeth and unfortunately I can't get help at this moment) him criticising the clothes I wear ,one time calling me overweight because he was mad at his little brother. What seriously is concerning is that everytime I point out something that bothers me,for example the fact that he told me he wished I was obsessed like Nikki,he calls himself mentally stupid and other names .
Also from what I've seen a few times,he likes videos about women not taking accountability or women prioritising their feelings instead of logical facts in arguments and I wanna talk to him about those videos specifically because I feel like they are meant for me since he liked them and he said he doesn't like them.