I just wanted to share that as a 5’5 straight man w no d (yet) I’ve felt pretty genetically nuked, but as of a little over a month ago I have had the most amazing (and also so genuinely beautiful) girlfriend. If I could do it, so can you, wishing yall the best.
I don’t know why I am, she treats me like a man, and hasn’t done or said anything that would make me think otherwise. Maybe it’s just bc in the past I was with someone who still wanted to use the label lesbian while dating me and another ex gf told me she was a lesbian the day after we broke up, and idk I just don’t want to be seen as a man-ish, or a way of exploring liking women, or the whole best of both worlds bs. Even though my girlfriend is bi, I don’t want our relationship to be considered queer, if that makes sense. Idk its just hard to believe she’s seen my body (not all of it) and still thinks of me as a man, and I guess I’m even more scared when she sees the rest of me it’ll click for her. Idk I think it’s just the dysphoria speaking. I’m just having a rough night.
Mostly just a dysphoric rant:
I don’t know why I am, she treats me like a man, and hasn’t done or said anything that would make me think otherwise. Maybe it’s just bc in the past I was with someone who still wanted to use the label lesbian while dating me and another ex gf told me she was a lesbian the day after we broke up, and idk I just don’t want to be seen as a man-ish, or a way of exploring liking women, or the whole best of both worlds bs. Even though my girlfriend is bi, I don’t want our relationship to be considered queer, if that makes sense. Idk its just hard to believe she’s seen my body (not all of it) and still thinks of me as a man, and I guess I’m even more scared when she sees the rest of me it’ll click for her. Idk I think it’s just the dysphoria speaking. I’m just having a rough night.
4 month old eyebrow piercing, barbell, hasn’t been downsized, I spray it with piercing spray twice a day and clean off the crusties with a q tip (I know your not supposed to but the spray doesn’t get rid of it, so idk what else to do)
While it was healing I wasn’t the best at not bumping it, but I haven’t recently. It’s been irritated like this for a while now, is it infected? Is there anything I should do or do I just wait it out?