u/Friendly-Egg8431

Dinner at ikea - butter chicken meatballs, nachos with meatballs, samosas, veggie medallion, cheesecake

I’ve read way too many posts about low effort men on this sub so I want to give some real examples of high effort men just to show that they exist! These examples are from my 3 closest friends who are in long term relationships (5+ years), so they’re way past the honeymoon phase

1	Delivers her a weeks worth of meal prep when she’s stressed   
2	Comes over just to clean her house   
3	Saved up all his credit card points for years to buy her a Dyson air wrap   
4	Blow dries her hair every night  
5	De-shells all the shrimp for her before she eats   
6	Picked her up at the airport with a bouquet of her favorite snacks  
7	Plans a full day of surprises for her bday each year   
8	Hired a weekly cleaner because she doesn’t like cleaning   
9	Cuts fruit for her to eat while she works 

I spent years third wheeling their dates until I met my own high effort man 🥹 it really is possible