u/Friendly_Kraken

Hello Reddit,

My grandpa offered me, in hindsight maybe in a passive-agressive way, to pay me a vacation. I believe he is not a millionare, but he is well off none the less. He thinks I dont leave my home often enough, and kinda blames me for it.

So I made some plans for next year, for a trip to thailand, to take a massage-class, and learn it from where it is originated.

Today I told my plans, and that I know that its a long distance, and I am happy to pay it myself, but he can add whatever he wants, since it was his idea.

He got completely cold, said that only sextourists would visit thailand and that he wont give me anything for it.

I mean its his good right not not give me anything. I got a little defensive and said that it doesnt matter how much he gives, but I am disappointed because it was his own idea.

Im really let down by the whole story, not because of the money, I can afford this trip easy by myself, but it kinda showed me, that the offers my grandpa makes are some kind of manipulation and not genuine.

I share close to nothing about my life (I am trans, he doesnt even know) and this interaction showed again, why.

So did I acted like an asshole, when I kinda pushed for the support, cause it was his idea? Or should I haved it droped the second he said no?

Would I be an asshole if I would make this the reason for myself to dial down my engangement? Again: Its not about the money at all. I have enough money myself. Its about how I get treated.

My character is rigged, and I want to move the arm for example, and then safe it. I had my whole pose done, then I clicked in the bottom in this "timeline" and everything is gone. "Undo" did nothing. But I dont want to animate anyway. I just want to change the pose.
Please can someone help me? I am literally broken inside, my nerves are done. Its been two days. Its such a simple task. I already gave up in UnrealEngine cause people said you need to animate to change the pose. I dont want to animate. Just move a bone... how can this be so hard?

Hello friendly people, thanks for your help in advance.

I have two rigged models in UE5 (Skeletal Mesh) and I want to change their pose. Nothing more. Its literally just that. I dont want to animate them, I dont want to .... I dont know ... whatever UE5 is trying to sell me.

Just two simple characters. Just the goal to change their pose. It just doesnt work.
Everything I tried got deleted once I saved the project.
When I just undo and redo it also gets completly deleted so please no more sequencer shit.
Just change the pose. Nothing more.

Why isnt this possible in two clicks?

I try to make a pose for two characters I important in Unreal Engine 5 and when I SAVE THE FUCKING LEVEL IT RESETS THE POSE! OKAY NO PROBLEM... I FOUND OUT YOU NEED TO SAVE A SEQUENZ SEPEARTED (WHAT THE FUCKING SHIT WHY EVEN!?) WELL TURNS OUT WHEN I SAVE THE SEQUENZ THE POSE ALSO RESETS!

I AM DONE WITH THIS SHIT I CANT. THIS HAS TO BE ON PURPOSE TO GATEKEEP. WHEN I SAVE SOMETHING IT SHOULD STAY THE WAY I PUT IT IS THIS FOR REAL!?

WHEN I PRESS UNDO IT ALSO RESETS THE WHOLE THING... WHEN I PRESS REDO.. NOTHING HAPPENS.

LOOOOL

HOW CAN THIS PIECE OF TRASH SOFTWARE HAVE SO MANY FANS!? LOOKS SHIT, PLAYS LIKE SHIT AND THE MOST SIMPLE TASK (CHANCE THE POSE OF A MODEL) IS NOT POSSIBLE. INSANLEY BAD SHIT.

I BET ITS EASY IF YOU KNOW HOW TO DO IT BUT HELL THIS SHOULD BE AN INTUITIVE 2 KLICKS TAST. NOT SETTING UP MASSIVE SHIT ONLY TO CHANGE A POSE NOTHING MORE MOVE A FUCKING BODYPART LOL

OKAY IM DONE.
SORRY I NEEDED THIS.