Please share your biggest struggles with POTS. I recently found out that I have it. So I would really appreciate to read about other peoples experiences/struggles ❤️
Hii, please share your advice for better sex as a queer woman. Thank you in advance.
I was obsessed. I was in limerence, like so obsessed with someone who barely knows I exist for like one and a half years. And I feel like I’m getting over them now. Recently, like, I’m really getting over it, but part of me somehow doesn’t want to let go.
I think at this point they’re just being a placeholder, like someone that I need to think of when I think about love. Like, it’s like I always have to have this feeling of being in love or liking someone. And so I just fantasize about someone, like a placeholder, you know? And right now it’s still my LO, or old LO, I don’t know.
And yeah, part of me is sad that I’m letting go. Like, part of me is sad for the loss, for letting go. I don’t know, I feel like I’m really at the final stage of limerence because I really am over them, but still there are parts of me that don’t want to let go. Sometimes I keep checking on them and stuff like that or fantasizing about us, you know? So I’m really struggling with that somehow right now.
But yeah, how can I fully let go? And how can I stop always having to fantasize about someone or fantasize about love, like having someone to hold that place, you know?