u/FullBit9496

Just wanting to get better at giving my woman better oral.
I guess I have never really been told what’s good/bad and have tried to figure it out myself.
Any advice?

I’m at the point in my marriage where we simply don’t talk much throughout the day and then at night. We don’t text really while at work, but when we get home, she cooks I watch kids, I clean she watches.. then put kids to bed it’s 9pm and we sit in bed for an hour or 2 and she’s on her phone. We simply don’t talk much.

Edit: I’m persistent nightly in trying to spark up conversations but she usually says she is too tired or just doesn’t want to talk about anything and trying to relax.

Is it bad that I am wanting to seek someone outside my wife to have conversations with throughout the day?

I’m from the Midwest USA and have discovered this community is full of a lot of convos that last, well, they don’t.
I am full of unique experiences ranging from sharks, skydiving, and crazy work stories. Those I’ll save for our convo.
What is your definition of crazy?
Where is the Midwest in your opinion?