u/FumbleKid

So I have kinda settled into a look over the years. It would not be unusual to see me in a cutoff t-shirt, painted nails, cuffed jeans, and eye liner (I’m a guy). I’m running around looking all cute and thinking I’m oh so unique when I stumble upon the Bis of YouTube and find out I’m basically in the bisexual guy uniform. I’m so disappointed in myself that I feel like dressing like Tucker Carlson from now on out of spite… for myself. Ugh! I’ll be at the coffee shop with the comfy couches looking dejected while playing on my switch. Do not approach…

I’ve been thinking about what it’s really like to be a bi man right now. I think about the rejection, the disgust, the hatred that seems to come from all directions. We’ve all seen the stories posted to this community and elsewhere. Many of us have experienced it first hand. Im not trying to dump on cishet women but, yeah, why do so many of them have to be disgusted with who we are? If they dont want to date us, whatever, thats their problem not mine. But why the actual disgust? Ugh… its so hurtful.

I’ve cried more in the last few days than I have in a while just seeing some of y’all’s stories. I ache for you that have suffered and I ache for myself. Dignity shouldn’t be so difficult to have in this world, yet here we are. Bi girls, you got your struggles too. I’m not forgetting you. I’m wondering if this makes sense to you all as well. Is it the same for you?

Thanks for letting me get this out there. I don’t want to sit with this darkness in my heart without saying something about it. Hope you all are well. Love you all. To whoever needs to hear this: You matter, you belong, and nothing about you is disgusting. You are more precious than diamonds or gold.

Located in the Houston, Texas area but up for chatting to anyone around the world. I’m kind and open minded looking to connect with others to talk about whatever, but especially games, art, the experience of being queer, etc. I’ve been playing BotW, Splatoon 3, and Guardians of Azuma lately, as well as a weird little independent game called Eternights. I do environmental photography and have been in exhibitions. I’m kinda dorky but hopefully lovably so. Let’s chat!