I’m an incoming freshman at Pitt. I just filled out my housing application and put tower C as my first choice because I love my privacy and need my own space. How hard is it to get? Do more freshman choose doubles or single? Should I still look for a roommate just incase?
Saw this on TikTok and it honestly perfectly describes how I feel. I wonder if this is the reason why I don’t develop crushes easily because I feel like a creep when I do.
Saw this on TikTok and it honestly perfectly describes how I feel. I wonder if this is the reason why I don’t develop crushes easy because I feel like a creep when I do.
18f, and I’m objectively ugly. Not like super ugly, but like a 4/10- 5/10 ugly. I sometimes get compliments from people saying “you’re so pretty” but since I know it’s not true, I kinda grimace in response. I know they are just being nice but it’s better to not give out compliments at all than give out fake ones. Anyways, it’s not like I get these compliments often and half of them are from children and the other from women(maybe once in a couple months) but I really don’t like it because then it makes want to believe I’m pretty when I’m not. Can anyone relate?
Edit: I have never ever been told that I’m pretty by a man which is how I know these compliments are fake
18F, and I’ve never had a first kiss. This is a combination of a few factors:
If anyone’s in the same boat please share! I’m starting to feel like an ogre lol
Got into Pitt GAP but was thinking of trying to get into UNC Chapel Hill after completing my prerequisites because I’m hearing they have breed industry connections. If I don’t get in, I’ll be stuck at Pitt, which still has a good pharmacy school. Everyone’s saying to not go into pharmacy because most end up in retail and retail sucks. Is it still hard to break into clinical or industry pharmacy if I attend a good pharmacy school?
I, 18f would rate myself a 4/10 on an objectivity scale (facially). This is what I would call “medium-ugly” because I am ugly enough to be invisible, but not so ugly that I get harassed. This has actually worked in my favor a lot. I’m pretty introverted and because of my invisibility due to my appearance, I am able to move through life very smoothly. I never got attention in high school, but I also wasn’t bullied. I am never harassed on the streets or catcalled. I was able to make friends with genuine people and focus on more important things that’s looks. Maybe if I was pretty all I would think about is how to maintain it. Of course, there are cons, but I honestly think the pros of being medium ugly outweigh the cons. I am a bit worried this might change when I move to the city for college though, like what if even though I’m a 4/10 in the suburbs, I’m a 2/10 in the city? Would I receive more harassment then?
I, 18F have always been really competitive. It’s done me pretty well so far and has helped me be the top of my class, get leadership positions in organization, etc. However, I believe the only reason I chase these things is because I’m always in constant competition with my peers. If one of my friends gets a better test grade or does well in a club, I don’t get excited for them because I hate that they’re doing better than me. I don’t showcase this of course, and congrats them on they’re accomplishments, but deep down I hate it. Unfortunately, not only am I like this with my peers, I’m like this with my siblings and cousins too. I recently just got into NYU, my dream college since I was a freshman. The tuition for this school is extremely high. My parents are willing to pay for it, but I feel guilty asking them for that much. Sometimes I’ll talk myself out of going to NYU and feel okay about it until I start to imagine one of my siblings or cousins going to a top college. Even just thinking about this makes me extremely jealous. The thing is, I believe my brother has a real shot at an Ivy too. He’s in the top of his class and has just started his own computer building business at the age of 15 and is making profit. I really want to be happy for him but I just cannot. How can I stop being a bitter, jealous person? Do I need therapy?