can someone help me do the math here?? i have 3 bottles and am taking 3 pumps per day, there’s no way this will last 80 days right??
yk how most trans people randomly act super super cis right before finally accepting they’re trans? We should come up with a proper term for this if there isn’t one, i think it should be called the Cis Valley
why do they literally work together to be creepy
Please don’t flame me for saying this, i’m 18 and i’ve literally never mailed anything in my life. 😭 Am i supposed to mail my application to the Regular Mail or Courier address?
(i’m not trying to make this a leading question, i’m writing this body text to explain my thought process)
Because like, they aren’t biologically within the binary of male or female, making them biologically NON-binary. So if they identify as non binary they would be cisgender right??
Cis nonbinaries
Possible SA warning but kind of not idk
this is gonna seem like a random post but if you read the whole thing you’ll understand why it related to being a trans man
So i’m 18, (senior in highschool) i started transitioning a couple of years ago and i’m 8 months on T. For context, I had a very large group of (all girl) friends, of which my girlfriend joined after moving to my school. These were my friends before they were hers and i’d been friends with them for years.
A couple months before i started T, me and my girlfriend broke up. Toward the end of our relationship it was pretty toxic, and to sum up our entire relationship: i would set a boundary, she would break it, and i would be upset that she broke it.
Well, she would always do this thing where she would grope me in public to be «funny», we dated for a 1.5 years and she did this throughout our entire relationship, even though i made it VERY VERY CLEAR that i hated it and it made me uncomfortable. She would spank me, grab me and dry up me, and grope me in public a lot, including in front of random children and family members (such as her mom). I asked her to stop many times and she never fully stopped, it got to the point where it would make me cry.
I posted about this right before we broke up, and people in this sub told me this is considered SA.
Anyway, right after me and her broke up, a friend asked me why we broke up, and i gave a few details about our relationship and things she did to me that were toxic, including the touching me in public thing. (to clarify, i don’t have the original texts anymore, but i’m pretty sure i never used the term «SA» when explaining this to her. I simply told her what my girlfriend did to me.)
She acted sympathetic and said she agreed that what my ex did was not okay, but then the next day suddenly all of my friends hated me and were going around school telling everyone to block me on social media, i then faced months of constant harrassment from my former friends, which i can’t fully explain in just one post, but it included things like them going out of their way to drive past me in their cars to scream «WE HATE YOU!! YOU SUCK!!» at me.
I recently found out what happened from context clues and things my other friend told me. It turns out, when i confided in that one friend about what my ex had done, she spun my story and went to my ex (as well as group of friends) and said something along the lines of «[NAME] is falsely accusing you of sexual assault just to make you look bad!» and everyone assumed i was lying to make my ex look bad for no reason, even though i have never done anything even remotely similar to that.
I feel like, if the roles were reversed (meaning if i was a girl and she was a guy) everyone would have believed me, but because i’m a guy now, because are assuming the worst. She acts like this sweet inncocent little girl, so everyone assumed i just made up SA allegations to ruin her life, and again, i NEVER EVEN USED THE WORDS « SA » i just explained what happened to my friend.
Everyone at my school hates me now. I still get harassed (just not as much as a few months ago). It’s good that i’m graduating soon but i’ll never convince anyone that i wasn’t in the wrong. Everyone just believed my toxic ex over me and decided they hated me because of that. Has anyone else had people assume the worst from them just because they’re a guy now??
This is more of a rant than a question i guess, but sometimes i really wish i was just a cis girl, so things like abuse would be taken more seriously from me yk