Ik shi with rent is tight rn but can a couple of students get a crib tgt? Where we pay arnd 500 each room smt like that. Im in nyc and rent is so expensive here and my parents r crazy and ik alot of girls struggle with their parents being abusive. If we all get a place maybe rent would be cheaper.
Ik everyone needs a job rn but im in a really bad spot atm with my parents. They abuse me and its unbearable. Im only a 17 year old girl but I need money fast so I can at least afford to dorm. I work 30 hours a week making 17 an house and tbh its terrible. Im just a tutor so I cant even get more hours. My check get drained on groceries laundry phone bill gym bill and other things I need. Its annoying bc i have to do everything alone while living in my parents house but thats just life i guess. I need a job thats going to pay me 20 smt an hour or something of that sort. Im a pretty girl and im also smart i can adapt so if anyone needs employees or know anyone thats hiring i would appreciate if theyd let me know. I need an opportunity to escape. I want to get into serving because they can make tips and can work many hours. Im a hard worker I just need an opportunity. Thank you.
Im in quite the pickle. Im 17 year old girl and my parents have been abusing me my entire life but its getting unbearable. My dad still dos not gaf and will but his hands on me and honestly thats not even the problem im used to it. My parents want complete control over my life and its to the point they want me home at 4pm. I just cant because i have school and also a job that they dont know about bc they take all the money. I was being stupid and I committed to cuny school when i shouldve went out of state when i had the chance. My parents talked me out of it and i was so stupid and i fell for it. Ik i can always transfer and stuff but i turn 18 this summer and i need to live my life. Im so sick and tired. What advice does anyone have for me. I really idealy want to move out and stay in the city but rent is so crazy and idk anyone who would let me live without a lease. I can only afford 500ish a month and even then its too much. I work 30 hours a week minimum wage. I need money so bad it could cjnage my life. Im tweaking out and so anxious i cant even breathe. My parents want to kick me out and idk where to go. Please any advice i cant stop spiraling. I genuinely dont know what to do and where to go.
Im choosing between these feilds and im js always so lost. I want to be a PA but theres no forward growth yk? Im js always a PA and some people like that but I like excitement. Being comfortable makes me uncomfortable but maybe im just young and dumb so I dont care for stability right now. But PA is such a great job and something I would enjoy doing. Only issue is theres no guarantee im going to get int PA school after my B.S. I always am someone who thinks about the what ifs and like what if im so burnt out I just dont want it anymore? Im stuck with a bachelors in biology thats going to get me no job. What if I just dont get in? Im someone who can pull through and study and do well on an exam if I need to though I procrastinate, but when it comes to everything else becoming a PA requires like the volunteering, the personal statement, the application process, I rlly do suck at stuff like that idk why.
That brings me to engineering something I thought id be my entire life. Right now im thinking about rlly locking in engineering because at least I can land a job with my bachelor's and work my way up and theres so many paths I can go up. What does worry me is the material. My whole like ive been good at math and science. Ive taken all the APs and stuff and im not a 5 student more of a 4 student yk. I dont rlly study only when I need to and I procrastinate but thats never stopped me from having straight As. Im around many smart people and im a senior in highschool btw and idk how smart I actually am. Idk if these math and physics courses for engineering are going to fry me in college. Im in this program where im going to my local college for 2 yrs taking engineering prerequisites and is i have a GPA of more than 3.3 I have a seat at NYU where i can finish my degree at tandon. This works out for me bc its a target school and hopefully ill get hired? Idk im in the nyc area and idek if in guaranteed a job for engineering. For PA ik they are always in demand but engineering what if i js am broke and jobless?
Idk that was alot and i would appreciate feedback. I feel like i dont know myself at all and dont know what i want to do bc i want to do everything. Ive always been a jack of all trades and master of none and it kinda sucks not having a passion. Maybe idk what im doing or maybe im js 17 bro idk. Lmk if you guys know anyone dealing with smt similar or yk any engineers or PAs that love their life.