u/FunLocation4945

I really need some help or advice about a really crazy situation. I've been in a relationship for a year with a foreign man. A lot of things didn't sit right, but I knocked down all of the red flags because I stupidly let myself fall in love.

I'd had suspicions about a woman he would spend time with. After bringing her up again last week, literally the day after our anniversary, he suddenly announced he was moving away. It didn't sit right with me and I made a comment about speaking to this woman. When I said this, I was blocked. I then realized I was also blocked from her page. A friend tried to contact her for me, but was then also blocked.

Next thing I know, I'm getting messages from him laughing at me, saying he told her to block me, etc. Then I started getting messages from an account on Instagram claiming to be his wife. When I finally told him that I was going to send her all the proof of our relationship, he started laughing at me again and said the account was actually him. I have a strange feeling the wife thing was all a smokescreen to divert my attention away from the woman I think he's actually in a relationship with.

I've discovered he's told her and a number of other people I'm just some crazy person who took a photograph with him one day and made up this entire relationship. But I have a year's worth of messages and photographs of us together to prove everything.
But I don't know what to do. I know most people would say I should let this go, but I don't feel it's fair that he's getting away with it and she has a right to know what he's been up to. It's really messing with my head. Can anyone please give me some advice on what to do here?

I’m confused on my ovulation day because I had only one OVT with a darker line 2 days after my only day experiencing the egg white discharge.
9 days after the discharge I took mild cramps. Thought my period was coming early.
2 days later had a tiny amount of light brown discharge plus my breasts started getting tender. Next day a tiny speck of pink discharge, breasts got heavier sensation.
Next day no discharge at all or water (honestly don’t know the difference with what is pee 🙈)
That night my boobs literally felt like I needed to pump them - I don’t ever get boob pain with periods. Not felt like this since I was breastfeeding 10years ago.
Next day, one instance of pale pink water on the tissue. Boobs felt even larger that night

Next day, my expected period date started getting some very small light brown spotting then later that night basically brown sludge with some light red water.
Normally I spot for 2 days before my period then a light to medium flow starts that night - by day 2 I’m usually in agony having to use pads along with tampons and changing about 5 times - this will continue for 2-3 days to the point I’m getting up in the middle of the night racing to the bathroom there’s so much blood.

Yesterday, day 1/2 I did experience a heavy bleed and soaked tampons but not much in the pads, then this morning my night pad only had a small amount of red water with some tiny red clots. I’ve had basically nothing since.
My boobs are no longer tender just get some flutters.
And I have not had a single bit of pain this entire time.
My usually pale yellow face has had rosey cheeks for the last week and still today.

I’m utterly exhausted but when I try to sleep it’s like my body is saying no you don’t need it.

I didn’t bother testing because my period started and now can’t test until tomorrow morning but going out of my mind wondering was it chemical or is there any chance at all that it is actually viable!
The breast pain leaving suggests my progesterone has dropped

I guess im praying hard someone will tell me it’s gonna be fine but I know I’m just tired and delusional
It’s the lack of any pain down there at all is confusing me

Sorry for my babbling

Feel kind of dumb asking this but this is a really weird cycle…
41, First time ever tracking using ovulation strips. Withdrawal method day 17, positive O test day 19.
Usually I have a few days of stickiness around this time but this occasion only on the day I had sex.
Day 24 started having some cramps felt like period starting and some more odd twinges today, yet I’m not due to start for another for another 6 days - I generally don’t get these feeling until 2 days before I start.

Week before AF I’m usually weaker at the gym fatigued, quieter, look gray and drawn out. However rn, I’m actually stronger at the gym than usual, full of energy, very talkative, have a glow to my skin and flushed cheeks. I’m also incredibly thirsty drinking up to 4 litres and insane hunger with random cravings whereas I usually can barely eat when I’m about to come on.

Other weird thing is, around this time I’d usually have like a milky discharge than gets thicker but I have been bone dry since ovulation.

I really don’t believe I could be pregnant but all these patterns are so weird for my cycle. I thought maybe it’s peri menopause? but again I do have a pretty regular 28 day cycle with consistent symptoms

Oh and also have have one really tender breast on the outer part