My old friend is threatening to come to my house and hacked into all of my social media accounts & my sister's.

My ex-friend that used to be jealous of me hacking into my Roblox, Snapchat, and Pinterest, so it wasn't my mom (sorry mother). she's also threatening to fight me and is saying my address which i have no idea how she knows my address since i moved since i was friends with her and never told her it. She hacked into my Roblox account and changed my display name, changed my avatar, and started messaging my friends on there. She did the same with my Pinterest but is typing inappropriate things in the search bar, like: "naked (character that was in my Pinterest board)", etc. She also told us that she knew both of our names and where we lived and was communicating with us through the Pinterest and Snapchat texting thingy, and was also cursing at us. That's when she said my address, which I have no idea how she got THAT because I hadn't told any of my friends from before I moved my address. But we were arguing after I left that school district because she had been making fun of me, but after that, I had her blocked on mostly everything. So I have no idea how she got access to all of my accounts. I also don't know if it's her, or someone's posing as her because they did say all of my old friends names and knew some stuff about me. What do I do?

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u/FunRoll2562 — 6 hours ago

My old friend is threatening to come to my house and hacked into all of my social media accounts & my sister's.

My ex-friend that used to be jealous of me hacking into my Roblox, Snapchat, and Pinterest, so it wasn't my mom (sorry mother). she's also threatening to fight me and is saying my address which i have no idea how she knows my address since i moved since i was friends with her and never told her it. She hacked into my Roblox account and changed my display name, changed my avatar, and started messaging my friends on there. She did the same with my Pinterest but is typing inappropriate things in the search bar, like: "naked (character that was in my Pinterest board)", etc. She also told us that she knew both of our names and where we lived and was communicating with us through the Pinterest and Snapchat texting thingy, and was also cursing at us. That's when she said my address, which I have no idea how she got THAT because I hadn't told any of my friends from before I moved my address. But we were arguing after I left that school district because she had been making fun of me, but after that, I had her blocked on mostly everything. So I have no idea how she got access to all of my accounts. I also don't know if it's her, or someone's posing as her because they did say all of my old friends names and knew some stuff about me. What do I do?

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u/FunRoll2562 — 6 hours ago
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Is it reasonable for my mom to go through my phone secretly?

So today around 3:00pm she had my phone and asked for my password, and I gave it to her. My sister was kind of navigating her through it and they went into my Pinterest (which my mom knows I use a lot and at one point I showed her what my Pinterest feed looked like) and in the search bar I usually search normal things, right? Well, at the top like the most recent search it said "(something) naked" which is weird because I use Pinterest every single day, and that was unusual because I don't search up inappropriate things. Ever. Also, Pinterest does not allow you to research inappropriate things. I have a feeling my mom did this because the rest of my phone has nothing bad on it, just that. Also, they checked my Snapchat. Which was ALSO weird because they didn't check any other app, just those. I don't use Snapchat, I don't even have friends ever since we moved, but when I did have friends, That is what I used it for. I know my mom, and she would do something weird like trying to pose as me searching inappropriate in the search bar or Snapchat. And all my friends are girls, because I am one too. But the only one that was texted was a boy. And it was 2 minutes ago, when I did not have my phone, just my laptop. The thing I'm using right now to write this. So she very obviously texted that trying to pose as me. She wrote: "Heyyy. Wanna meet up?" I don't even text like that, and I have no interest in boys, nor can I access any as I have no friends and don't go to school since It's summer. I just don't know why she would do this to make it seem like I was doing something inappropriate, when I wasn't. Also, when I confronted her about it, She said: "WELL, I don't like when you're on your phone." What do I do??

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u/FunRoll2562 — 8 hours ago

why can't my mom atleast pretend that she loves me?

i don't want to argue with her i just wanna know what it feels like to be loved. whenever i don't argue with her and just cry when she yells at me or screams at me - which is everyday, she mocks me by saying "oh, now she's crying" and uses it as an advantage to say it's because i don't have my phone, which is wrong.

she orders me around and tells me to "go do that" "go do this now" "go clean the floors" and i never hear a please, or even a thank you. i clean for her everyday, i mop and i vacuum and clean the entire downstairs just to get her approval and she just comments on the negative things like if i left the mop in the way by accident, instead of just appreciating it.

she seriously takes me for granted and when i don't help her for a day she goes "you haven't helped me clean in a long time" to make me pity her, or she just yells at me.

which is probably why i hate loud things and get paranoid and highly anxious by them.

she doesn't even say hi to me or good morning when i wake up, and if she did, i would appreciate it so much and would be so nice to her if she could just act like she cared for me and had respect for me like i try to with her.

once when she was drinking and my brother was acting up and just barged into the room and slapped me across the face for no reason.

she also doesn't let me go upstairs with my phone or let me shut my door ever.

she calls me names, she calls me weird everyday, and gives me dirty looks or just stares at me and doesn't smile or anything. and i don't like it

does anyone know what i could do? i feel like i can't take this anymore.

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u/FunRoll2562 — 10 days ago