u/Fun_Aerie6553

Hi all, i need urgent advice from women who are married , with kids.

**Hi everyone, I’m 26F and currently four months postpartum, with a 20-month-old toddler. At the moment, I’m staying with my parents, but after marriage I have been living in a joint family with my in-laws. Since the beginning, there has been constant friction between my mother-in-law and me. She often compares me to other women in the family who are much older than me, almost my mother’s age.**

**Even during my first pregnancy, I had similar conflicts and wanted to live separately. However, I was convinced to stay back for the sake of support with childcare, but in reality, I didn’t receive any help. Now, after my second delivery, I’m expected to return to my in-laws’ house in the next one or two months, but I truly don’t want to go back to that environment. I would prefer to live separately.**

**When I discussed this with my husband, he stopped talking to me, and we haven’t communicated for the past two months. I’ll be meeting him in a couple of days at a family event, and I’m unsure how to approach this. I feel like I need to make a firm decision—either we move out and live separately, or I consider renting a place for myself and my children. I’m feeling very confused and would really appreciate some guidance.**

Note: few days ago when i met my mil and husband at an event, my mil acted as if nothing happened. She did not even ask about 2nd born but kept insisting me to move back. Still they mil fil husband sil did not even call or text me since 2 months.
I work but currently on ML. Plans to take a break from job incase we move out.

I can elaborate if you need more info .

Please please tell me am i right for wanting peace in my marriage.
Use chatgpt for sentences and grammer