My girlfriend said she cheated
To put into context our relationship was rather good,we go on dates sometimes planned sometimes random hang out, give space when needed, normal communication blockades fights were not overly common either. A few days ago she told me she had willingly gotten the pet treatment from a Polly couple on a vr headset (because apparently that means something specific) when we have already agreed on being sole to each-other there have been issues in the past where I find conversations are overly flirtatious or directly can cross boundaries like someone stating clear sexual intentions over friendship and it just getting brushed off her shoulder while they continue to disrespect our relationship with erotic photos and sometimes nudes (the nudes get an insta block though and she doesn’t send anything other then selfies) a lot of the time it’s chalked up to she didn’t realize the social cues.
I still do not know what the pet treatment is other then that it can sometimes be a bad thing for Polly couples to do when it’s non consensual but it was consensual so I’m not sure how to move with this as it seems to be emotional cheating according to the girlfriend.
TLDR girlfriend of 3 years got the pet treatment from a Polly couple she wanted it to happen she has said she feels it was a forum of emotional cheating what do I do I’m confused and this seems kind of hard to understand to me. I am just hurt and upset