u/Glittering_Net_7734

Na discover ko recently na malala pala yung teasing and flirting ko. The more closer ako sa babae, napapalala yung teasing ko.

Yung one time, may isa nagpalpitate siya konti dahil sa coffee. Sabi ko naman "Baka kinabahan ka dahil sa akin." Natawa naman siya and I think she didnt mind it. Nakailan na ako nagawa neto, natatawa naman, pero not sure sa long term consequences neto.

May serious conversations naman ako, pero at some point, lumalabas nga talaga. Another time may nakawan sa amin, na mention to each other ano strategies namin para matago nang valuables. Sabi ko na "wag ka punta sa amin, alam mo na saan nakatago" Sabi niya hindi naman siya magnanakaw, then sabi ko maynanakaw na siya, sabi niya ano? Then nag send ako nang heart emoji 😅.

Ma bad shot ba ako neto or dont mind kayo? I'm not saying I should stop being me, pero drawing bounderies lang ba.

So there's this very close female friend of mine that I am fond of. We've just gotten close these past few months, for some reason a bit too quick compared to my previous friendship closeness experiences.

At first, in a crowd, while I was drinking water, pretending not to see her, she stops, really makes that head tilt that makes it obvious to me that she is looking my way, we make eye contact, then gives that confident smile. Not at all nervous, then goes her way.

The second time, in a crowd again, I was looking for someone specific, too busy. Then I glanced her direction, then she once again makes that head movement to really catch my attention, we make eye contact, she smiles, I can't see her specific facial expression if it's a coyish smile or not, I have a bad eye sight. We exchange smiles like the other time, then I go my way.

Even with my other female friends, I have never seen anyone do like that. She's the closest friend I have now actually, confiding to me several times. Even sometimes mentioning what she purchased? Not really asking my opinion, just telling me.

So why does she do that?

I never flirt and tease this much to anyone ever. I had crushes before, but now, for some reason, I am currently in my most brazen state. Does that come with aging? I am in my mid twenties, so I guess I matured a bit?

If opportunity arises, I flirt and tease her a lot. Like that one time she made me homebrew coffee, and I told her she can make this coffee everyday for me. Naturally, she rolled her eyes off and playfully hit me.

I just love teasing her and guaging her reactions.

The cliche of finding her first among the crowd, hovering around her, my torso turning towards her, opening up to her a whole lot. Every body language cliche that's been mentioned, I've probably done that, except acting nervous.

Kinda amazing that she's not turned off by now. I know she's not turned off since we are really close. Well I guess she doesnt see me that way and is simply disregarding the obvious signs so perhaps that's why she's not putting a distance just yet.