u/Glum-Witness5668

I’ve been on a journey to start attempting to like my nose more, or at least tolerate it. I’m going to therapy next week, which I’m hoping will help with my overall self image (along w accepting my nose). My hubby has said he likes it; he never commented on it specifically until i was more consistently vocally insecure about it (but I guess what reason would he have to comment on it?) He always makes me feel like it’s beautiful and that I’m making a big deal out of nothing. In effect, he wants me to love it, and doesn’t want me to get any work done, nose included.
But a few things have sent me spiraling lately. You can see pics of my nose on my profile, as I posted photos of myself & it on this subreddit a few weeks ago. Most people were supportive, but there were a few comments supporting me getting a nose job (also on other subs as well). Also, at work the other day, I was talking to my coworker and we got on to the topic of plastic surgery. I mentioned that I wanted a nose job, and without missing a beat, his exact response was “Oh, to fix the bump?”
The hubby always makes me feel like it’s not noticeable. However it obviously is. I can’t afford rhinoplasty currently unfortunately. I just wish my nose wasn’t as “weird” as it is. Do any of you all feel the same, or similarly struggle? What has helped y’all? It can suck, ngl :(

I get social media shows “baddies” w lots of surgeries, botox, fillers, etc. but even irl, i know women who have a naturally sculpted facial structure, naturally long pretty lashes, cute compact foreheads, proportional noses, etc. ofc some of it could be minimal procedures or makeup. but i know many women w none of that who look perfectly proportional and beautiful. even all made up, i have tons of flaws, i just have a weird face. i know jealousy can be dangerous, but i can’t help but be jealous of almost every other woman, w a more “normal” face. i’m also scared to pass on my genes to my kids someday, even though it’s my dream to have kids. it makes me nervous that they’ll look like me