u/Grouchy_Paint_6341

I have a hard boundary about not telling people I am autistic I prefer the opportunity to safely share it myself with others. That being said my partner recently confided in me that on night out they got intoxicated and told their coworkers I was autistic because of my “eccentric” behavior. Mind you their coworkers have never met me ever. They just saw me texting my partners phone that night a lot we were fighting and having a rough moment and my partner felt it made sense to then say ooh yeah they are autistic. I genuinely feel so violated bc these people aren’t respectful of the fact that I have autism and already started treating my partner slightly weird bc of it yet my partner thinks that by telling them it helped them to understand. I am lost and feel like on the verge of meltdown. I feel so misunderstood 😭 by my partner and I hate my boundary was broken by people who don’t get it. I just needed to vent thx u

Hi, I started relationship with my doula signed contract and paid $200 for phone support up until birth to help with emotional support. This doula writes in her contract and spoke a TON over video chat about the importance of supporting me emotionally. She has not done that and been tad dismissing and keeps asking about therapist. I do have therapist and group therapy I see regularly. This been rough pregnancy chronic I’ll, unexpected and I am HFA and on anxiety meds bc the pregnancy been so hard ( now prepping for pre term labor). Bc she hasn’t provided me with support and breached contract can I get my money I have paid back despite it saying non-refundable? Is it still legally hiding if she broke it ?

Location: Rhode Island

Looking for any tips or help, I also have POTS and potential MCAS. Thank you!

If anyone has resources or recommendations for treatment please let me know. Thank you