I (F24) want to do it, I know I shouldn’t. 9 days of nothing, and I feel like I’m going crazy. How do you go from talking everyday for nearly 2 years to nothing?? Do you think he even thinks of me at all…?
I don’t know what to do with myself. I’m so lost and I feel like shit. My ex is seemingly happy with not talking at all. I haven’t reached out. My last text was about smth he left at mine. He told me that he’s got a very busy week and he’ll keep me posted. I replied saying no worries, I can drop off if needed.
Since then he hasn’t said a peep… I mean it’s been about 5-6 days. This guy went from texting me all hours and calling till I’d pick up to radio silence. He’s still got me on everything but we don’t follow on insta anymore. I don’t check his socials which is good.
How does someone get through this? Best friend ripped out of my life, I’ve wanted to tell him about so many things that have happened in my life. How do I get through the radio silence, it’s not like him.
I (female), had been broke up with pretty randomly after almost two years by ex bf. He got depressed after a family thing happened, I was there for him always. He went to work still, had support from family. Made sure he knew he could get help not just from me. A few days prior to the relationship ending he was getting more distant, staying at his alone (we stayed together every night, by his choice btw), he texted less, we went to Manchester together for the day and we just felt like friends the entire time. Then the day of, just crept on me and I was none the wiser (idk how). He asked to meet me outside my house which I thought was odd, I did, thinking he’d be sorry for being distant, he gives a sad smile as he walks towards me.
I told him you’re doing it aren’t you? You’re breaking up with me? He said he didn’t know how to say it. It almost sounded planned… we both cried our hearts out. I was still being nice to this guy, he got his dad to drop him off here and wait so he could get all his stuff. So he already packed my things… I helped him pack his stuff, he kept crying looking at all his stuff and our stuff together. He kept saying maybe in the future, I’m so confused and I’m struggling right now. What the fuck does that even mean. He wanted to stay in contact so we did, we kept in contact and he texted everyday, sometimes called. Fast forward to the next couple days after that, I’m struggling and miss him. I told him I did and he was saying he felt the same but so many things are uncertain now, he’d go straight from that to talking about himself, saying he was going to a new friends house today.
Fast forward to last night, I had his location on and mistakenly looked at it (dumb I know), he was going everywhere, left me on delivered for 6hrs (Ik he’s not my bf he doesn’t have to reply to me), I felt so overwhelmed. Then saw he was at a HOTEL… so I got upset and sent him a message saying “not even been two weeks and you’re staying at hotels?” Mind you this guy would usually get his dad to collect him and bring him home if he was out, not get a hotel…. So I blocked him after sending that message. I regret blocking him, but I feel so hurt. Was this the wrong thing to do??
Will he ever come back?