u/Guilty-Difficulty248

hi :] i’m a 22F (pansexual) and i guess i’m posting here because i miss having genuine romantic connection in my life. not necessarily rushing into anything serious agad, but i am looking for someone open to dating and seeing where things go.

about me:

• feminine-presenting

• into films/media/creative stuff

• medyo kalog once comfortable

• clingy physically (i like to hold hands)

• can be both soft and intense depending on the vibe

• libra sun if that matters HAHA

what i’m looking for:

• sapphic / queer / masc woman around my age sana

• emotionally mature and kind

• someone who actually likes conversation and quality time

• preferably from metro manila or nearby para possible magkita eventually if we click

we can start as friends first if that’s more comfortable. no pressure naman agad. i just want something genuine in a time where everything feels so fast and detached lately.

send me an intro about yourself if interested :> kahit awkward okay lang, i’m awkward too lol

i think nowadays people push the narrative that you should be better for you. but in my head, that's already a given and that i just get more motivated by the thought that i want the person that i like is dating a version of me that i like. does that make sense?

i just feel more inspired to do better, to be better because the person that i like inspires me to. they're very admirable and call me delusional, but if we ever date, i don't want them to date my current self.

my lack of experience in the dating scene is lowkey making me feel insecure.

im a pan, and ive dated guys but i havent been in an actual serious relationship before. the longest ive probably had was like less than 2 months (i was young).

ive definitely changed a lot since then, but talking about my past relationships or lack thereof + my VERY interesting religious background has made me think na baka these factors make me less desirable.

im an agnostic and i go to this cult ish church (iykyk) para sa family ko. the universe knows na if i was given the chance and the freedom to, i'd leave that religious institution immediately.

so idk my question is:

(1) do people prefer someone who's been in long term rs or any naman ?

and

(2) do people prefer those na may clean religious background (like someone na walang sabit sa religion)?

though sa 2 parang mas madali nga naman ung walang sabit sa religion kc mas madaling mag-date ng someone ma malinis in that aspect 😫 so wala lang, ill be a bakla na magsu-suffer na lang ig till im free 😆

so, im genuinely interested in this person and medyo fresh pa ang pagkakakilala namin because we met through a gig but we've been talking since then.

i just find this person very admirable kaya everytime they call me bro dude bes my heart shatters 💔

do yall think this is like their way of letting me know that they arent in the same page as me? i think ive been very very obvious about my interest towards this person hahaha

for more context: this person has been sending me memes, reels, pag di siya pagod kinakausap niya ako... 🙏🏻 bought me something (v cheap lang naman pero sabi niya alam niya raw na magugustuhan ko eh)

im thinking tuloy if im just overromanticizing everything kasi i like them hahaha