u/H3nk_De_Potvis

Ik heb eindelijk mijn eerste motor kunnen aanschaffen, een mooie FZ6. Deze zou ik graag ook mooi willen houden. Nu heb ik helaas geen eigen garage en moet hij in de buitenlucht staan, vandaar de behoefte aan een motorhoes.

Een beetje rondzoeken bracht me bij DS Covers. De Delta lijkt een goede optie, maar ik heb een topbox achterop zitten, dus ik ben bang dat die niet gaat passen. De Alfa heeft wel een topbox optie, maar deze hoes is behoorlijk dik en ik moet hem ook ergens kwijt kunnen zonder dat hij de hele topbox opvult.

Denken jullie dat de Delta over de topbox past, of moet ik toch een andere hoes overwegen?

Ik sta open voor alternatieven! Alvast bedankt!

First of all, I want to preface that I know I messed up. I just want to know how much of an asshole I am.

I started talking with this girl at work. We had a really good dynamic and it was always an amazing time with her. After a few weeks I walked here home and she invited me over for a drink, we ended up snuggling in bed. It was a really good time. I knew this might actually lead somewhere, but I wasn't quite catching feelings.

A few days later, she texted me to come over. I hesitated for a minute, but I ended up going. Maybe hoping some form of spark would form. I stayed over at her house again. We chatted for a bit, and things got really intimate for quite some time, no sex though, but pretty close. The next day, we just stayed snuggling, and she started talking about future plans. That is when a moment of emptiness hit me, and honestly, I didn't know what to do. I didn't want to break things off instantly, because then it would just seem like I used her. I ended up just talking around it a bit. There was also a bit of a talk about a potential date the next day. A little bit before I was about to leave, she asked me if this was a mistake. At that time, I couldn't take it anymore, so I ended up just telling her straight.

I told her how she was an amazing person, and I really enjoyed the time we had. I wanted to get to know her more, but I ended up not feeling a spark. I genuinely did not mean to lead her on, but the hours of snuggling and kissing for sure did not make it seem that way. I told her I was genuinely sorry, which she followed by telling me to just leave.

I am genuinely sorry about the situation and really feel like an ass because I know I genuinely hurt her. Intimacy is something she is not easily inclined to. I know I won't be able to make it up to her.

PS: I think it might be worth mentioning that I came out of a relatively recent breakup. I think this might have played a part. I think I confused the affection for attraction, the comfort of holding someone.